Thursday, May 12, 2022
Wish You Were Here-Book Review
Tuesday, May 10, 2022
What is a Coastal Grandmother?
I have just discovered the vibe, ‘Coastal Grandmother’. Let’s take a minute and review exactly what that vibe is all about. It’s not just a reference to a woman but it is also a feeling and a lifestyle that is currently enjoying favor and being celebrated on sites like Instagram and TikTok.
According to Tik Tok user Nicoleta (@lexnicoleta), the movement includes women young and old who “love Nancy Meyers' movies, coastal vibes, recipes and cooking, Ina Garten, cozy interiors and more.” She also says the movement is about taking time to enjoy life. About slowing down.
I had to look up Nancy Meyers' movies and it turns out that the list includes Private Benjamin (Goldie Hawn), Father of the Bride (Steve Martin, Diane Keaton), The Parent Trap (Dennis Quaid, Natasha Richardson), What Women Want (Mel Gibson, Helen Hunt), Something's Gotta Give (Jack Nicholson, Diane Keaton), The Holiday (Kate Winslet, Cameron Diaz), It's Complicated (Meryl Streep, Mel Gibson) and most recently, The Intern (Robert De Niro, Anne Hathaway). They are all very popular, fun movies geared toward women. I now know who Nancy Meyers is and can say that I love her movies even if I did not recognize the name of the American filmmaker. You can check out Nancy Meyers' movies here on Amazon.
USA Today calls the style “classic and timeless”. You might be a Coastal Grandmother if you like Grace and Frankie’s (2015-2022) home style in the program of the same name, Diane Keaton’s style in Annie Hall (1977) and Meryl Streep’s home in Complicated (2009). I definitely love those styles though I cannot say that my home style is classic or timeless. My home is simply casual and comfortable but those are Coastal Grandmother feelings, too!
Glamour says the term applies to the “perennially summertime lifestyle of a beautiful older woman.” They say that she likes natural products and looking after herself. That she enjoys simple, quality things. That she loves wine and book clubs and life. I definitely love the ideas of an easy summertime lifestyle, of relaxing with a glass of wine and of going to my book club meetings!
Most interesting, I thought, was Glamour’s statement that the Coastal Grandmother prefers real life to life online and I will take that as a reminder to walk away from my computer and celebrate life everyday.
Anne Hathaway at 39 is much younger than you would think of as a grandmother but says that she loves the style and even shared a photo of herself online sporting comfortable khaki pants, shirt and a bucket hat. All were comfortable and all were in neutral colors. Two more great Coastal Grandmother characteristics.
On TikTok, Nicoleta expanded on the comments mentioned previously by saying that Coastal Grandmother “is the feeling that you get when you’re visiting your friend at the beach. A cozy, safe feeling.” I can’t imagine not loving that feeling.
In case you are wondering, no, you don’t have to be a grandmother nor do you have to live on the coast to be characterized as a Coastal Grandmother and yes, there is a Coastal Grandfather equivalent. Glamour cites Stanley Tucci as an example.
I like TheStyleEquation’s definition of the movement as shown here in this short video from TikTok:
I illustrated the top of this page with a fun, printable graphic from Echowood Printables on Etsy. I love the elements that creator Logan has woven together to create her interpretation of this trend. Click here to see Logan's visual representation on Etsy. Her print is an inexpensive way to add this trend to your home's decor.@thestyleequation The latest trend, not just for grandmothers! #coastalgrandmother @Lex Nicoleta #lifestyle ♬ original sound - Jennifer Ebelhar
You will also find some interesting, on trend Coastal Grandmother clothing and decor pieces here on Amazon.
Brenda
Treasures By Brenda
Monday, May 9, 2022
Carewell: The Caregivers Shop Review
Carewell: The Caregivers Shop is an online shop I found and used when assisting a family member to recover from surgery. This shop was a wonderful resource and their ability to ship quickly in the midst of a snowstorm was impressive!
Selection
Carewell carries all the major brands you will recognize, but the difference is the wide selection per product. Whether it be flavors, sizes, the medium or products you didn't even know were offered, the choices are voluminous. This makes shopping so much easier and definitely gives the shopper so many more options which helps to provide exemplary care.
Shipping
Quick! Very very quick even when one part of the order was caught in a snowstorm mid route. The communication was on point and efficient to give notice of the package arrival. Free 1-2 shipping is available for orders beginning at $49.00. The quantity of each product offered is similar to a big box store like Costco or Sam's Club.
Bridges The Gap
The selection at Carewell's helps bridge the gap between items which are necessary, but not easily (if at all) available for in person purchase at a bricks and mortar store. I was surprised to find a product I found at the local drugstore actually came in many more sizes and flavors, but only found online at Carewell. Phone assistance is available 24/7 to help with product selection if needed.
Sunday, May 8, 2022
10 Questions to Test How Well You Know Your Mother
Ten Questions for You to Answer or Ponder this Mother's Day about Your Mom or Mother Figure
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Saturday, May 7, 2022
The Bone Island Trilogy – Book Reviews
This trilogy takes place primarily in Key West. The name Bone Island comes from the first explorers who visited the island around the beginning of 1600. They found the bones of deceased native tribes and called it the 'Island of Bones' or Cayo Hueso.
Bone Island Trilogy
Ghost Shadow
The Bone Island Trilogy begins with Katie O'Hara who is drawn into a years-old murder when David Beckett returns to Key West. David, a photographer and film maker, had been gone from his island home for many years, working in his craft around the world. His fiancé had been murdered and some suspected that David was guilty of the crime. He returns home to deal with the paperwork involved following the death of his grandfather and perhaps to find a way to clear his name. Katie becomes involved in the mystery surrounding the decade-old murder, despite warnings from her spectral friend Bartholomew, an 18th century ghost.
Ghost Night
While filming a slasher movie, two actors are murdered on Haunt Island, a remote island in South Bimini. Two years later, survivor Vanessa Loren meets up with Sean O'Hara in Key West where plans are underway to film a documentary about the storied region, including the unsolved crime that haunts Vanessa. As they begin filming along the coral reef, the discovery of authentic pirate treasures deepen the mystery. Spectral help is needed once again before more murders occur.
Ghost Moon
Officer Liam Beckett of the Key West police force finds an old man has died in his home. His granddaughter, Kelsey Donavan, returns to her former Key West home to catalog her grandfather's collections of artifacts and antiquities. But the old family home ~ Merlin House ~ gives Kelsey the feeling she is being watched. Is the house haunted; are the ghost stories true? Liam vows to protect Kelsey and discover the truth.
Characters in the Bone Island Trilogy
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Photo Credit: Pedro Lastra on Unsplash |
This trilogy has continuing characters that are either related or have been good friends since childhood. They are all 'conches' – the name given to those who were born and raised in Key West. There is Katie and Sean O'Hara ~ brother & sister, David and Liam Beckett ~ cousins, Jamie O'Hara ~ Katie & Sean's uncle who runs a popular bar and restaurant where Katie does 'Katie-okie' 4 nights a week and where most of the friends congregate regularly, and several couples who make regular appearances throughout the trilogy.
Then there is Bartholomew Miller, the most interesting of all the characters. You see, Bartholomew was a 'privateer' during the time pirates and privateers wreaked havoc in the Caribbean. He plied the seas for England for years and finally found a home on Bone Island. His home at the time is the house Katie now lives in, so Bartholomew shares the house with her. Katie has been able to see ghosts most of her life. Later, the ghost attaches himself to her brother Sean, and eventually to Liam. Bartholomew plays a part in helping solve the crimes and strange goings-on that occur throughout the Bone Island Trilogy.
Summary
I just recently discovered that there is a prequel to the Trilogy – Ghost Memories - and it's all about Bartholomew!
I enjoyed this trilogy very much and recommend it to readers who enjoy mystery stories that are also 'ghost stories'.
More Series by Heather Graham
*The Bone Island Trilogy book reviews written by Wednesday Elf.
+Intro Photo by Lynn Danielson on Unsplash
Friday, May 6, 2022
Luscious Lemon Cake with Lemon Cream Frosting Recipe
For my birthday this past year, my husband decided he wanted to make me a birthday cake. He said that I bake cakes for everyone else for their birthdays and he thought I should have the gift of a specialty cake too. When he asked me what kind of cake I wanted, I told him I wanted something I had never made or eaten before. I wanted a lemon cake that actually had lemon in the cake, not just a white cake topped with lemon frosting.
Did it deter him that I did not have a recipe for him to use? No, it did not. If anything, he got really excited about baking a cake that no one we know had ever made before.
He searched high and low, through my recipe books and I think even online
for a lemon cake recipe. Truthfully, I didn't realize I had given him such a
difficult task. I am the only family member who loves everything
lemon. When it comes to cakes, most of the family prefers either
German chocolate or chocolate cake. For many years, my mother has made
me a lemon meringue pie for my birthday, which is her specialty.
I went to visit my parents the day before my birthday. When I
returned home, my husband had made me a luscious lemon cake with lemon
frosting. He even sprinkled lemon zest on the top! It is one of the
best gifts I have ever received and most definitely the best cake I have
ever eaten. I truly appreciate his thoughtfulness and
determination. What makes it even more special is that it is the first
cake he had ever baked. He has helped me prep for cakes before, but he
had never been the cake chef before.
He agreed to let me share his lemon cake recipe here, but I won't share my baker.
Lemon Cake with Creamy Lemon Frosting Recipe
Prep Time | Cook Time | Ready In | Yields |
---|---|---|---|
1 hr. | 35 min. | 3½ hrs. |
1 Cake |
Note: Before you begin, set out your butter. It needs to be a
room temperature Then, zest 3 large lemons
Lemon Cake Ingredients
-
2¼ cups
Swans Down Cake Flour
- 1 Tablespoon baking Powder
-
1/2 teaspoon kosher salt
- 4 large egg whites
- 1¼ cup buttermilk (we like the Bulgarian buttermilk)
- 1½ cups sugar
-
8 Tablespoons unsalted butter - room temperature
- 2 Tablespoons grated lemon zest
- 1 teaspoon pure lemon extract
Directions
- Preheat the oven to 350°
- Butter & flour two 8" cake pans
- Set 8" cake pan liners in pans and butter them
- In a small mixing bowl, whisk together buttermilk & egg whites (set aside buttermilk mixture)
-
In a large bowl, combine the cake flour, baking powder and salt.
(set aside flour mixture)
- In a separate large bowl, combine sugar & lemon zest by rubbing them together with your fingers until moist. Add the butter and beat on medium speed for 3 minutes. Beat in lemon extract.
- Gradually mix flour mixture and buttermilk mixture into your sugar-zest mixture, alternating the flour & buttermilk mixture & beating well after each addition until batter is smooth
- Bake at 350° for 35 minutes, until a toothpick inserted in the center comes out clean
- Let Cool for 5 minutes, remove from cake pans.
- Remove cake pan liner by gently rolling it off the cake
- Let cool completely, approximately 1 hour
- In the meantime, set out cream cheese & butter for lemon frosting recipe so they can warm to room temperature
Lemon Frosting Recipe
- 8 ounce cream cheese - softened
- 8 Tablespoons unsalted butter - room temperature
-
1/8 teaspoon kosher salt
- 2 ¾ cups powdered sugar - sifted
- 2 Tablespoons lemon juice - freshly squeezed
- 1 Tablespoon grated lemon zest
-
1 teaspoon
pure vanilla extract
Directions
- Using a mixer, beat the cream cheese and butter together until smooth
- Slowly add powdered sugar, salt, lemon zest, 1 Tablespoon lemon juice, vanilla extract
- Beat on high speed for several minutes, then add the remaining 1 Tablespoon to lemon juice if desired for taste
- Frost the cake, decorate with lemon zest if desired & serve
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Wednesday, May 4, 2022
Our Pets are Wonderful and We Can Help Them Stay Healthy! ~ A Product Review
When we think of our pets, they are more than just a pet, they are part of the family. Every dog and cat owner knows that they are not pet owners, rather they are owned by their pets. There is a big difference! We love them so much that we treat them like we treat those we love, by getting them "special treats". Unfortunately, like human "treats", animal treats are similar in that they taste good and are usually full of calories that they don't need. Just think of that big piece of Chocolate cake (that most of us don't really need)! Because we love our pets so much, many cats and dogs are now having the same problems that a lot of humans have and that is that they have become overweight!
These are my two Grand Dogs, Mabel in the upper picture and Dougal in the bottom one. Mabel is a soft haired Wheaton Terrier and Dougal is a French Bulldog. These are their puppy pictures and we love them both.Now I must say that most of these overweight pets are more likely to be in the big cities where their exercise routines are not as robust as a dog in the country. Country dogs can run around without too much of a hassle from cars and other dangers. City dogs have to be kept on a leash for their own protection and the protection of others (both human and animal). City folks can find parks that have designated areas for their dogs to run freely, but that usually means a trip, and it might not be close to home either. If you can for your own health and the health of your dog, make that trip to the Dog Park often.
The best time to start training your cats and dogs about their eating habits and exercise programs is when they are young. Puppies and kittens need more good quality food because they are growing! But just because they are growing doesn't mean they don't need their exercise either. Strong bones and bodies are the result of both good food and plenty of exercise. In that sense they are very much like humans!
Scheduled eating times helps keep both dogs and cats happy. But what happens when your dog is just like a vacuum cleaner and he sticks his/her face into the bowl of food and literally just sucks it all in? It's not a great way for them to eat and they will quickly be begging for more. Mom and Dad or the kids will be tempted to give into their pets wants! Here is where the problem begins. Over feeding is easy to do, the results are not so easy to take care of. No one likes to be on a diet!
But what if there is a way to keep your cats and dogs from being able to just gulp down their food? Wouldn't that be a great way to slow them down, make their digestion easier and cause them to feel full once they are done? It works for humans and it works for our pets too!
There are many different kinds of dog/cat dishes that can help your animal to slow down and still get their daily allotment of food. Just have a look at these wonderful pet dishes that really do help make dinner time not only enjoyable for your pets, but it also makes it more interesting for them as well.
Overeating is thought to be partly due to boredom too! So if there is a way to keep the dogs and cats interested and still slow them down, you have a win-win situation.
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Tuesday, May 3, 2022
World of Warcraft Review - Why It's a Great Game for Older Folks
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Monday, May 2, 2022
Reviewing Why I Make and Recommend Bannock
Bannock, a type of bread that is made in a skillet or pan on the stovetop or open fire, has been something I have made off and on over the years. But recently, Bannock has been in the forefront. Between being an integral part of a book series I've just read and being what I'm making for breakfast this morning, I thought I'd share with you.
What is Bannock?
After a Google search, it seems that Bannock (with a variety of spellings) was a Gaelic word meaning "morsel" and is believed to have originated in Scotland. It is a flat, unleavened bread and it is thought to have been introduced to North America by Scottish immigrants.
You'll hear the words fry bread and bannock use interchangeably at times. The Indigenous people of North America make an unleavened fry bread. I believe that the original Scottish bannock used oatmeal and the North American fry bread originated with meal made of corn or nuts. At some point in time, both versions began using flour.
For my personal use and definition, Bannock is a yeastless bread that is made of flour, baking powder, and a liquid and is cooked on an almost dry skillet. Fry bread is similar but "fried" with a larger amount of oil. I am sure others have their definitions, but this is mine. Bannock is something that hikers, campers, and hunters can easily make while on the trail.
Bannock for Breakfast
Today has turned cold and stormy. Thunder claps and lightning had me rushing to check on the outside animals before crawling back under the blankets. I felt too lazy to make breakfast but I was hungry. When I finally got up and moving, I made bannocks and scrambled eggs with sausage crumbles.
During the moving process from the apartment to my land, my best friend was helping at one point and made a crack that I had "several" cans of baking powder. When I told him that I planned to be able to make Bannock if I get snowed in on the mountain he understood completely. He is an avid outdoorsman who has also made bannock while camping.
I started making bannock when I was camping in "The Shack" on my land. With only 4 ingredients, it was an easy thing to have on hand in off-grid conditions. As the house build began, I camped in the little shed and conditions were more austere. The shed was such a very small space for camping and storing supplies. But I could make bannock on my single camp stove burner.
I use the version by Liz Thomson. The ingredients are:
- 1 c flour
- 1 tsp baking powder
- 2 TB olive oil
- 1/2 tsp salt
- 1/3 c warm water
- herbs such as rosemary are optional (I use the most minuscule shake of Mrs. Dash)
Bannock in the Books
Sunday, May 1, 2022
The True Meaning of a Kitchen Table
I'm having a moment.
We're in the process of giving our kitchen a facelift, and our dining room table, which has sometimes doubled as our kitchen table for thirty-six years, may need to be sold.
What's the Big Deal About Selling a Table Anyway?
Thirty years ago or so, I read an eloquently and emotionally written article in Reader's Digest about a family's kitchen table; thinking about it today brings tears to my eyes. I tried to find it for you so I could link to it here, but I have yet to find it.
The author talked about her family's life around her table: gatherings, birthdays, celebrations, games, and tears. I've always remembered that article. Having such a big family, I easily relate to the memories created around the family table.
She said she didn't want to sell her memory-filled table to anyone. She wanted it to go to a family growing with it and filling it with their memories.
Why Thinking About Selling this Table Has Me in Tears
I'm a wuss. It's official.
My husband and I purchased this table in 1986. We needed a large table for our large family. I have three step-kids (all grown up now) and, at that time, one son of our own. Today, we have four sons, and we've since added six grandchildren.
We have had almost every birthday for all the kids around this table. We've celebrated baptisms, Christmas, Thanksgiving, weddings, and every other major event families celebrate.
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A memory from 1987 at this very table with my Dad, our oldest boy as a baby, making us laugh, and my youngest brother |
Our kids have gone from little to big; we've added spouses, girlfriends, and boyfriends to the family mix. In-depth conversations, teasing, and great food have been shared for decades.
I recently sat with my oldest boy, sharing tears at this table about mom's (his grandmother's) passing. Mom and Dad shared many dinners with all of us at this table. Dad passed away in 2013; missing him is now a part of my soul.
This Table Has Lived
It's not just a table; it represents our life.
I'm still determining if I'll sell it.
In fact, after typing this, I think if we can't incorporate it into the new design, I'll keep it in case there's a move to a new home in the future.
It's solid oak. In my book, it's priceless.
It's not priceless because it's solid oak but rather because the characteristics of an oak tree represent our family traits: longevity, strength, stability, and endurance.
Hey, our family isn't perfect; we've had our share of struggles, but as the mom, I see many faces passing through time whenever I glance at the empty seats gathered around.
Here's our table, our life:
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A Kitchen Table Filled with Memories |
Do you have a table where your family has gathered for generations?
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