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Sunday, June 15, 2025

Why YouTube Success Isn’t Just About Likes or Subscribers Anymore

Why I'm Writing This - YouTube's Algorithm Has Changed

I'm no YouTube expert, but I'm definitely a research addict.

I've spent countless hours watching tutorials, reading articles, and just observing what works (and what doesn't) on my own channel, StumpedRiddles.

What I've come to realize—and it might surprise you—is that the old metrics of YouTube success aren't the only thing that matter anymore.

So, I thought I'd share some of what I've learned.

It's Not Just About Likes or Subscribers Anymore

We've all heard it before: get more subscribers, get more likes, and you'll grow. And yes, those metrics still matter—but they're no longer the whole picture.

In fact, you can have a video blow up even if you have zero subscribers. I've seen it happen. The reason? Interest-based retention.

What Is Interest-Based Retention?

This is the real game-changer.

YouTube's algorithm (which is constantly evolving) is getting smarter at feeding content based on a viewer's actual interests.

It's examining search history, viewing behavior, and even the types of videos people finish and rewatch. The algorithm then pushes videos not just because they're popular, but because they match someone's interests.

YouTube and much of social media are building their own version of TikTok's For You Page.

You might be thinking, "Well, if I subscribe to a channel, it's because I'm interested in what they have to say." Sounds logical, right? But surprisingly, that's not always how it plays out. Think about how many channels you've subscribed to, only to rarely—if ever—watch their videos again. We've all done it. Subscribing doesn't always equal ongoing interest or engagement.

How This Changes Everything

This shift means that the focus is less on building a massive following and more on creating content that resonates deeply with a specific audience.

You don't need thousands of subscribers to make a splash. You just need the right video to reach the right people.

I've seen some of my own riddle videos gain more traction than I expected—not because they were perfectly edited or had fancy intros, but because the riddle struck a sweet spot in the interests of certain viewers.

That's encouraging, especially for creators just starting out.

Niche Growth Is Slower (But Powerful)

Here's something else I've learned the hard way: niche content tends to grow more slowly. If you're not making videos in a massive trend space like gaming or beauty, growth takes time.

I wrote more about this last week, but it's worth repeating—being in a niche like riddles means you're not trying to reach everyone. You're aiming for your people.

And that's actually a good thing. Your community becomes more engaged, and your content is more likely to be shared among people who genuinely care.

The First Three Seconds Matter (A Lot)

One of the most essential pieces of advice I've heard repeatedly (and am still trying to master myself) is this: the first three seconds of your video are everything. That's your hook. If someone doesn't connect with those first few moments, they scroll. Period.

So, I'm experimenting with ways to capture attention fast. Whether it's a powerful statement, a visual twist, or a bold question—I'm trying to start strong. Because if the algorithm notices people clicking away too fast, your video is basically toast.

New Ideas vs. Recycled Content

Now let's talk content. The internet is saturated with duplicate, recycled content. That's just the way it is.

But here's something I remind myself of: even old ideas can feel fresh if you find the right angle.

That's what I try to do with StumpedRiddles. There are tons of riddles out there, sure—but I try to inject personality, humor, and a little twist.

It's not about inventing a whole new concept every time. It's about presenting it in a way that feels new or different.

Here's my latest creation to spark interest - the creation of the Riddle Sisters! Four young ladies with different personalities reading riddles and competing for attention. Their names are "Pink-Haired-Patsy, Educated Ellie, Gentle Violet, and Wild Roxy."

Here's Educated Ellie's most recent riddle post!

Final Thoughts (AKA What I'm Still Learning)

I'm still figuring all of this out, but I wanted to share these nuggets in case they help someone else.

The biggest takeaway? You don't need a million likes or subscribers to be successful on YouTube. You just need a good idea, a solid hook, and a clear sense of who your video is for.

And honestly, I think that's kind of exciting.

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Sunday, June 8, 2025

Is My YouTube Channel Growing? What the Research Actually Says

Is My YouTube Channel Growing or Am I Just Going Through the Motions? What I Found Out

Like many content creators who have committed serious time and effort to YouTube, I reached a point where I had to ask myself: Is this going anywhere? Am I building something, or am I just talking into the void?

After uploading hundreds of riddle niche videos and slowly gaining subscribers, I started wondering whether my pace was "normal" or a sign that maybe YouTube just wasn't going to work out for me.

So, I did what many creators do when they feel stuck: I started researching.

What I found was a mix of relief, validation, and renewed motivation.

If you're in the same boat, asking the same questions, here's what I've learned from digging into YouTube growth patterns, expert opinions, and honest feedback from others in similar situations.

Why I Started—and How My Goals Changed

Initially, my motivation for creating a YouTube channel was straightforward: I needed a platform to host short riddle videos that I could easily embed on individual pages of my website, StumpedRiddles.com.

Initially, YouTube was just a functional tool—not a platform I had planned to grow.

But as I kept uploading and people started interacting—leaving comments, liking videos, even subscribing—I realized YouTube could be more than a support feature. It could actually become its own avenue for discovery, branding, and connection.

That's when I started treating my channel as a long-term creative project.

Here's a Typical Riddle Creation For Both YouTube and My Website:

So… Is My Growth Normal?

At the time I asked myself this, I had uploaded over 400 videos, built several themed playlists, and reached 155 subscribers—with a 90.9% like ratio on my videos. Naturally, I wondered: Is this respectable? Should I be further along by now?

What I experienced isn't unusual at all. Here's what I found:

1. Niche Channels Grow Slower—but Stronger

One of the first takeaways that jumped out during my research is that niche content takes longer to grow.

Whether you're posting riddles like I am, or offering tutorials, educational content, or deep-dive commentary, your audience is smaller by default, but often more engaged.

Unlike general entertainment or viral content, niche creators often build deeper connections with their audiences over time.

The slower pace doesn't mean failure—it means focus.

2. Most Successful Channels Take 3–5 Years to Build

This one surprised me. I found multiple sources and creator testimonials suggesting that it can take three to five years for a YouTube channel to gain significant traction—especially without shortcuts like trending content, reaction videos, or influencer collaborations.

In hindsight, this made me feel a lot better. What I thought was "slow progress" was actually typical progress.

Understanding that YouTube is a long game, not a sprint, shifted my mindset and helped me let go of some unrealistic expectations.

3. Consistency Builds More Than Numbers

I used to wonder whether uploading hundreds of videos with modest views was overkill. But here's what I learned: each video adds to your footprint. On YouTube, volume matters—but only if the content is consistent and aligned with your niche.

Evergreen videos, such as riddles or how-to guides, can attract new viewers long after they're uploaded.

Some of my earlier videos continue to attract attention months after they are posted. I realized that every upload isn't just a performance—it's a deposit into your future visibility.

4. Playlists Aren't Just for Organization—They're Strategy

I'd built playlists on my channel mostly to keep things tidy—organizing riddles by themes like health, holidays, and emotions.

However, what I didn't realize until I delved into the research is that playlists actually aid YouTube's algorithm.

They signal consistency and intent, guide the viewer's experience, and can improve watch time.

Creating a series called The Riddle Sisters, with fun character-based riddles, also helped give my channel a personality—which matters more than I thought.

One of My Many Playlists:

5. Engagement Rate Is a Quiet Win

When I saw that my like ratio was over 90%, I wasn't sure if that meant much.

However, experts say that the engagement rate is one of the most important signals of viewer satisfaction. It may not skyrocket your subscriber count overnight, but it shows that the people who do watch your videos are finding value in them.

That told me I wasn't just yelling into the void—I was actually connecting with the right viewers, even if the crowd was small (for now).

So viewers could see that I'm actually a real person (lol), I created a playlist section where I personally read my riddles. Here's one of them from the playlist: I upload these as shorts:

What YouTube Creators Should Expect (and Accept)

Here's the big picture I walked away with after all that digging:

YouTube growth is often slow, especially in niche spaces.
Most creators see meaningful growth only after years of consistent effort.
Engagement and audience retention are more valuable than raw view counts.
Creating structure through playlists, themed content, and branding helps both your viewers and the algorithm.
Uploading regularly—without burning out—is more important than chasing virality.

So, Should I Keep Going?

That was the big question for me. And after reading what I did, the answer became clear:

Yes, I should.

If anything, the research validated that I wasn't behind—I was right on track.

The hours I've put into editing, theming, scripting, and uploading are not wasted. They are foundational. According to the experts, they are precisely what a channel like mine should be doing at this stage.

Meet one of My Latest Creations From The Riddle Sister Series:

Final Thoughts: Questions Are Good—Just Don't Let Them Stop You

If you've been quietly wondering whether it's worth continuing, whether your results are "respectable," or whether your numbers are normal, you're not alone.

I asked all those questions, too. And while there's no one-size-fits-all answer, what I found out is this:

YouTube is a long-term platform. Niche creators need patience. But persistence really does matter.

If your channel has heart, structure, and consistency—even with just a few dozen or hundred subscribers—you're already doing better than you think.

👉 Curious how all this looks in action? You can visit my channel, Stumped Riddles on YouTube, to see how I've structured playlists, themed content, and kept at it—one riddle at a time.

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Sunday, June 1, 2025

Meet the New Star of Riddle Fun: Pink-Haired Patsy!

🎀 Meet Pink-Haired Patsy: She's Got Sass, Smarts & A Riddle or Two

Alright, I admit it—I've gone down a new rabbit hole of fun.

Some people garden, some people golf.

Me? I create virtual characters to read riddles. (Don't judge—it's a vibe.)

If you've ever landed on my StumpedRiddles YouTube Channel, you might've seen my growing collection of short and longer videos—riddles delivered with a twist, a wink, and now… a splash of pink.

Because ladies and gents and everyone in between, it's time you met my newest obsession:

✨ Pink-Haired Patsy! ✨

💁‍♀️ Patsy: The Pink Parade You Didn't Know You Needed

Patsy is 21, pocket-sized, and punches way above her weight class when it comes to personality. She's not the kind to wait her turn—or ask for permission.

She dyed her hair pink last week and hasn't looked back. Why? Because it makes her feel like herself. That's it. No deep symbolism. Just pink = joy.

She's bold, she's direct, and she's on a mission to make life feel a little less like a Monday morning. If you're too serious for silliness, Patsy's not your girl. But if you're up for a brain twist with a side of attitude? Pull up a chair.

🧠 Why Patsy Reads Riddles

Honestly, she's doing it for you. (And maybe a little for her acting reel.)

Patsy gets it—life can be heavy. But riddles? Riddles are little puzzles wrapped in playtime. She figures if she can get you to smile and think in under a minute, that's a win.

So, created from my overly active mind, she's jumped in to read one of my riddles. Just one—for now. She has that "see how this goes" energy, but I've a feeling we haven't heard the last from her.

👩‍👩‍👧‍👧 The Sisters: A Wild Bunch With Opinions

Let me tell you—Patsy's not an only child. Oh no. She's got three sisters, and family dinner with this bunch? Let's just say you wouldn't be bored.

🌸 Violet (aka The Whisperer)

Soft-spoken, emotionally tuned, and always the last to speak—but usually the one who says something that sticks. Violet's idea of fun is journaling in a café window seat. Her riddles are gentle, but deep. Don't sleep on her.

🔥 Roxy (aka The Firecracker)

Rules? Never heard of them. Roxy's the kind of girl who'd sneak a whoopee cushion into a book club meeting. She's wild, unpredictable, and somehow still lovable. Her riddles often involve a little mischief and a lot of fun.

📚 Ellie (aka The Brain)

Ellie is one podcast away from starting her sixth side project. She lives in learning mode. If there's a random fact to know, she already knows it. Her riddles tend to have trivia vibes or clever twists that make you say, "Ohhhh, clever."

And then there's Patsy.

A little bit of all three. But louder. And pinker.

🎬 Dreaming in Spotlight: Patsy's Big Plan

Here's the thing—Patsy wants to act. Yep, she's heading to acting school. Her parents? Not thrilled. But Patsy? She's doing it anyway.

Because that's who she is. She's not here to follow the script. She's here to rewrite it—in pink ink.

🎥 Patsy's Debut: Let's Go!

And now, for her first-ever public performance: a riddle reading that's equal parts sass and smarts. You can check it out right here:

🎬 Watch Pink-Haired Patsy's First Riddle Performance on YouTube

Oh, the answer to the riddle is here!

🗯 Final Thought (Straight From Patsy Herself)

“Look, life’s weird. If you're not laughing at least once a day, you're probably not doing it right.”

Ready for more riddles, laughs, and pink-powered fun? Patsy and the crew have only just begun.

Did You Enjoy Patsy- Created From My Wild Brain!

If I had to pick one of the sisters who best resembled my personality, it's probably Ellie! But I'm full-blown pink at heart! In fact, I've wanted to dye my hair pink for a very long time. Maybe one day!

Which sister best describes you?

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Sunday, May 25, 2025

Damien & Angel: A Tail of Two Kitties - A Flash Fiction Story

Or, "The Curious Case of Narcissistic Cat Disorder (NCD)"

Today, I'm sharing a fictional tale inspired by my friend's very real, very entertaining two-cat situation, where a few truths are sprinkled into a whole lot of playful imagination.

Meet the Brothers Fluff

In a cozy, well-loved home filled with sunbeams, strategic cat towers, and the occasional overturned plant pot, live two very different kitty cats: Damien and Angel.

Angel is the embodiment of feline calm—a zen master in fur. He purrs with purpose, meditates near windows, and silently judges your snack choices with a soft, serene stare.

Then there's Damien.

If Angel is the yoga instructor of the house, Damien is the misunderstood rockstar. He enters a room like he owns it, flicks his tail like it owes him money, and occasionally asserts his feelings with the subtle grace of a velvet wrecking ball.

Is it Jealousy? Boredom? Or... Narcissistic Cat Disorder?

We say this with love, but sometimes it seems like Damien might have a touch of Narcissistic Cat Disorder—NCD, for short. It's not in any official vet manual, but if it were, the symptoms would be obvious:

Excessive self-admiration
Moments of complete insanity
Haughty stares from atop bookshelves
The belief that Angel is merely an unpaid extra in The Damien Show

Don't get us wrong—Damien isn't mean. He's just... confidently assertive with opinions. Strong ones. Usually about who gets to walk through the hallway first.

But under that puffed-up tail and occasional glare is buried a lovable, complex little guy trying to express himself—with flair and the occasional dramatic pawticipation.

Good Kitty vs. Dark Side Kitty: The Yin-Yarn of Household Harmony

Angel, as his name suggests, radiates tranquility. He walks gently, naps deeply, and is basically the Dalai Lama with whiskers. He even tolerates belly rubs (well, occasionally—let's not get crazy).

Damien? Damien is more "Darth Vader in a cat costume." He doesn't just swat toys—he interrogates them. He doesn't just jump on the counter—he conquers it.

But they're brothers. Opposites, yes, but bonded in a cosmic way that transcends the frequent hiss. Like Batman and Superman, only with more fur and slightly worse communication skills.

Kitty Mom & Dad: The Real Heroes of This Saga

Before you picture total fur-coated anarchy, rest assured: kitty parents are on top of it.

They've read articles, watched expert videos, adjusted feeding schedules, and spent more on calming pheromone diffusers than they care to admit. They know the signs: the sideways glance, the twitchy tail, the silent prelude to a high-speed chase, and a Damien pounce.

This is not a home of chaos—it's a carefully managed feline society. Structured playtime? Check. Individual love sessions? Check. Strategic furniture placement to support vertical hierarchy? Check, check, and cat-tree-check.

They even have contingency plans for when Damien channels his inner drama queen and needs a solo timeout with his "special area for shame and comfort."

The Occasional “Oops-I-Pounced-You” Moment (a.k.a. Cat-Fu Theater)

Now, let's talk about the cat pouncing.

Not the lighthearted "boop" of affection. We mean the real, committed kind—when Damien struts past Angel and delivers a swift, unannounced "just because" paw body check that clearly means, "I am the boss for the moment."

These moments are not always daily occurrences, but when they happen, ohhh, they happen.

Sometimes Angel absorbs the swat like a Buddhist monk, blinking slowly as if to say, "You're projecting again." Other times, he returns fire, and within seconds it's a full-blown Feline Face-Off—starring Fluff & Fluffer.

No claws, no blood, just a thunderous 12-second flurry of tail flicks, dramatic glares, and a series of rapid-fire sound effects that can only be described as "angry sock puppets in a wind tunnel."

It's not violence—it's performance art. And like all great artists, these two have a lot of feelings.

That said, it's always under close supervision. Kitty's mom and dad know when to redirect the energy with toys, throw out a snack distraction (aka the Peace Treat-y), or simply separate them for a cool-down session. Even if Damien occasionally leads with his paws instead of his heart, he still tricks everyone into believing he is a lovable fluff with a complex emotional soundtrack.

And Angel? Well, he's probably off journaling in the laundry basket again, processing his growth.

In Conclusion: Two Fluffs, One Home, Infinite Drama

Whether Damien is secretly auditioning for a feline soap opera or just navigating big feelings with small paw gestures, one thing's for sure: these brothers are deeply loved and wonderfully cared for.

Their home isn't perfect, but it's full of love, laughter, and the ongoing quest for peace between Angel kitty and his slightly more… theatrical villain sibling.

Sure, there's drama—but they still curl up under the same roof as any siblings who haven't quite agreed on who's the favorite.

**Heads up: Kitty names are pseudonyms to protect their purr-sonal privacy!

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🕮 I hope you enjoyed this latest flash fiction piece :)

🕮 If you're in the mood for more, a few weeks ago I shared a flash fiction story about Gracie at age 8—full of childhood wonder—and before that, one about Gracie at 82, rich with wisdom and reflection.

If you're looking for a spiritual short story, I penned this one in 2021.

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🕮 I've also published 50 Years of Poetry—We Will Have Morning Smiles, Available on Amazon (a lifetime of my poetry).

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Sunday, May 18, 2025

Pinterest vs. Social Media: What Most Creators Get Wrong

Why Pinterest Is Different from Other Social Media Platforms

If you've got a pile of content and you're wondering how to get more eyes on it, especially over time, Pinterest might be exactly what you need. While Instagram, TikTok, and Facebook are great for engagement in the moment, Pinterest works differently. It's less about real-time interaction and more about long-term discovery.

Let's break it down.

Pinterest Is a Visual Search Engine

Most people think of Pinterest as a social media platform, but it's actually a visual search engine. That's a game-changer if you're a content creator, blogger, or small business owner.

When people go to Pinterest, they're not necessarily looking to chat or scroll mindlessly—they're looking for ideas, inspiration, and solutions. Think of it like Google, but prettier.

Someone might search:

"Neutral living room decor ideas"
"Spring front door wreath"
"Easy slow cooker recipes"
"How to start a blog"

And when your pin shows up in those results, you're meeting someone at the exact moment they're interested.

Content on Pinterest Has a Long Shelf Life

One of the best parts about Pinterest? Your content doesn't disappear after 24 hours.

On platforms like Instagram or TikTok, your post might only get attention for a day or two. But on Pinterest, a well-designed pin can circulate for months, even years.

You can:

Create a single photo promo with a compelling headline and link it to your blog, shop, YouTube, or lead magnet.
Schedule that pin to go live next week—or next month.
Rinse and repeat with all your content.

It's the perfect place to build a library of visual content that keeps working for you behind the scenes.

Pinterest is Built for Clicks

Unlike many social platforms where outbound links are either hidden or discouraged, Pinterest encourages users to click through. That's why every pin you create can be connected to whatever URL you feel fits best:

A product page
A blog post
A YouTube video
A landing page
Even an affiliate link

If your goal is to drive traffic (not just likes or follows), Pinterest should be part of your strategy.

You Don't Need to Be "On" All the Time

With TikTok or Instagram, consistency usually means showing your face, filming videos, or engaging with comments regularly. But Pinterest doesn't require that kind of presence.

Instead, you can:

Batch-create your pins
Schedule them out days (or weeks) apart
Let the Pinterest algorithm do the rest

This means more breathing room and less pressure to be constantly visible. I use scheduling a great deal.

I'll create numerous variations of a marketing graphic and schedule them to go out hours, days, or even weeks apart.

Here's an example of a Pinterest graphic I recently created for one of my activity books.

Note that I created five other original versions of this marketing piece and scheduled them to go out days apart, actually, a few are scheduled to go out weeks apart:

More than a wordsearch book grandmas life advice

Got Tons of Content? Pinterest Helps You Use It All

If you're sitting on a treasure trove of blog posts, product photos, videos, or quotes, Pinterest gives you an easy way to repurpose them.

Each piece of content can inspire multiple pins:

One with a bold title
Another with a quote or benefit
A third with just a clean, eye-catching image

The more pins you make, the more chances you have to be found.

Because we may write on numerous topics, having the freedom to create marketing graphics for one location, if you've structured your Pinterest account that way, is incredibly convenient.

An article I posted here several weeks ago about an affordable men's wallet inspired me to create this pin, which leads back to that article; and yes, I created five different versions of this wallet pin to go out at different times to different boards.

Final Thought: Pinterest Isn't Just Social—It's Strategic

If you spend time creating content but feel like it's getting lost in the shuffle of fast-moving feeds, consider Pinterest. Think of it as your quietly powerful sidekick—always working in the background, helping the right people find your content when they're actively looking for it.

If you have a lot to share but not a lot of time to promote it constantly, let Pinterest do some of the heavy lifting.

You can find me on Pinterest here. There, you'll see the boards I've created over the years. To date, with nearly 12,000 followers, the traffic is between 250,000 and 350,000 monthly views, depending on the time of year. Don't hesitate to follow!

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**If you're into more creative fun, in January of this year (2025), I posted an article on how to use Pinterest's new collage feature. The instructions are here.**

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Sunday, May 11, 2025

A Little Luck: A Fun Look at Lucky (and Unlucky) Numbers

Have you ever had a favorite number you swore brought you luck? Maybe it was your birthday, your jersey number in high school, or just a number that "felt right."

Well, you're not alone. It turns out humans have been assigning luck (and bad vibes) to numbers for centuries. From ancient cultures to modern-day lotteries, numbers have carried weight far beyond their mathematical value.

So let's dive into the surprisingly quirky world of lucky numbers and their infamous unlucky cousins.

Where Did Lucky Numbers Come From, Anyway?

There's no official "history of lucky numbers" carved in stone, but lucky digits have been floating around since ancient times.

Early civilizations believed in numerology, where each number had a specific meaning or vibration.

The Greeks, Chinese, Egyptians, and Babylonians all had their take on which numbers could bring good fortune (or doom). Fast-forward to today, and we still hold some of those beliefs.

It turns out old superstitions die hard—especially when they're tied to money, love, or fate!

So, What Are the "Luckiest" Numbers?

You'll notice some numbers keep popping up across cultures, and they've gained a reputation for bringing good vibes. Here are a few that take the top spots:

7 – The Universal Lucky Charm

If you ask people their lucky number, seven wins by a landslide. It's a spiritual number, connected to perfection and completion. Think: seven days in a week, seven wonders of the world, and even lucky 7s on a slot machine. It's practically the Beyoncé of lucky numbers.

8 – Wealth in the East

In Chinese culture, eight is considered extremely lucky because it sounds like the word for prosperity and wealth.

It's so revered that people pay extra to have it in phone numbers, license plates, and even addresses.

Want to sell your house faster in China or anywhere else? Make sure the address has an 8.

3 – Harmony and Good Things in Threes

The number three represents balance and harmony. Think of the saying, "third time's a charm." In storytelling, things often happen in threes—three little pigs, three wishes, three musketeers. Coincidence? I think not.

9 – Power and Magic

Nine is often associated with wisdom and experience. In Norse mythology, there are nine realms. In numerology, 9 is the number of the humanitarian and spiritualist. It's also the last single digit, which gives it a sense of completion and power.

11 – Intuition and Inspiration

Though not always labeled as "lucky," eleven has a certain magical, intuitive vibe. Many people make wishes when they see 11:11 on the clock. I know I do! It's a number that's thought to open a spiritual gateway (or at least a wish-granting moment).

A Few Numbers That Didn't Make the Lucky List

Let's not forget the dark side of digits—those numbers we avoid like stepping on cracks in the sidewalk.

13 – The OG Bad Luck Number

Ah, thirteen. So misunderstood. In Western culture, it's considered super unlucky.

Hotels skip it. Airplanes skip it. Heck, Friday the 13th even has its own horror franchise.

The roots are fuzzy, but it's often linked to bad omens and betrayal (looking at you, Judas Iscariot, the 13th guest at the Last Supper).

4 – The Death Number (Literally)

In many East Asian cultures, especially Chinese and Japanese, four is avoided like the plague because it sounds like the word for death. Some buildings even skip the 4th floor entirely. So if you're giving someone flowers in Japan, don't send four!

But believers can take charge with these home tips on how to ward off evil spirits!

Famous Numbers in History

Beyond superstition, some numbers have simply earned their legendary status thanks to history:

1066 – The Battle of Hastings, which changed England forever.
1492 – Columbus sailed the ocean blue. Love him or not, that number sticks in your head.
1776 – Independence Day in the U.S. Enough said.
911 – Not lucky, but certainly significant, especially in North America.
666 – The "Number of the Beast." If you've ever looked at a receipt total and gone "nope," you've felt its power.

But Here's the Wildest Part…

Now for the twist—ready?

I personally know ten people who have won the lottery. Yes, actual winners. Not the "my cousin's neighbor's dog-walker" kind of story, but real people in my life. And some didn't just win pocket change—we're talking millions.

A few were instant ticket winners, others hit it big in traditional draws. It always shocks people when I tell them I personally know big lottery winners! And yep, we won a luxury vehicle in 2001! That was amazing! It's since been sold, but wow, what a day that was when I received the call that we won the early-bird prize for that draw.

Final Thoughts: Numbers, Luck, and a Little Magic

Whether you believe in lucky numbers or not, they make life a little more fun.

They add meaning, spark tradition, and—let's be honest—fuel our dreams when we buy that one lottery ticket "just in case." I'm not saying numbers can change your fate… but hey, if you've got a number that feels lucky, go ahead and play it. You never know what magic it might bring.

What's your lucky number? Do you have one or more than one?

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Sunday, May 4, 2025

Gracie Always Knew - A Doll's Lesson - A Flash Fiction Story

In March of this year, I wrote my first flash fiction story.

It was about an 82-year-old woman named Gracie, rocking in her chair on her porch, reflecting upon her life.

Today is another flash fiction story about Gracie, who is eight years old. Long before those 82 years of life experience kicked in.

This flash fiction is about the early signs of who Gracie would become, and the first quiet stirrings of the peace she would one day find within herself—peace that would stay with her all the way to that rocking chair at 82.

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Gracie Always Knew - A Doll's Lesson

Gracie held her favorite doll, its painted smile forever unchanged.

She studied it closely, realizing that while she had learned to run faster, dream bigger, and feel deeper, the doll had stayed exactly the same. Time moved through her like the changing seasons—shaping her in quiet, steady ways—while the doll stayed exactly the same.

That's when she understood: time only changes the living.

She gave the doll a pretend life, imagining it full of thoughts and adventures. But sometimes, late at night, another thought crept in—what if someone imagined me into being, giving me my lines, feelings, and story?

Church was as much a part of her life as brushing her teeth or saying goodnight. And with church came God, expected, unquestioned, and ever-present.

But the older she got, the more she wondered: Where is God? Why is God? Her questions had grown more detailed now, shaped by the things she was starting to notice about the world and about herself. Those questions were still too big to hold, but she carried them anyway.

She thought often about who she was becoming.

There was one thing she wanted to be more than anything—kind. Really kind. The type of kind that came from the inside, not just because someone was watching. At eight years old, she failed at that many times. But it remained ever-present in her spirit.

Most of the time, she was kind. But not always. Sometimes, she snapped at her little brother and was mean to her little brother!

Sometimes, envy crept in like a thief. She felt that and knew jealousy was not something to cling to. Still, deep down, she understood those moments didn't define her. They were passing clouds, not her sky.

Something inside her—some glowing ember she couldn't name—kept telling her that kindness mattered more than almost anything else. It was what made people beautiful. Not their clothes, or their hair, or even their words.

She felt kindness was like sunlight through a window—gentle, warm, and easy to miss if you weren't paying attention, but everything felt better there.

However, the world didn't always agree.

Gracie had started to notice contradictions.

Adults talked about love, forgiveness, and doing what was right. They sang about it in church, prayed about it at dinner, and nodded solemnly as Church leaders spoke.

But then the same people would gossip, lose their tempers, or ignore someone who needed help. It confused her. How could they forget so quickly?

She wanted to believe people meant well—that they were just trying, like she was. But part of her couldn't shake the feeling that some were only pretending—that they wore kindness like a costume and took it off when it no longer served them.

And then, with a quiet sigh, she admitted it—Sometimes, I do that too.

The realization didn't crush her, but settled into her chest with weight. Maybe being good wasn't about getting it right every time. Perhaps it was about not giving up when you got it wrong.

Gracie didn't like the idea of perfection—something about it always felt impossible, like a game no one could win. And yet, she couldn't help but chase it.

Even at eight, she felt the pressure to be the one who got it right, who made things better, who didn't let anyone down. Somewhere along the way, without meaning to, she'd written herself a silent set of rules: Be better. Fix it. Don't disappoint.

She didn't know it then, but that quiet urge to rescue and make things right would shape much of her life—until years later, when she finally began to see its weight and learn a different way of being.

You see, Gracie was, by nature, a rescuer. But she didn't know that yet.

For now, at eight years old, she knew only this: being a doll would be so much easier. Dolls didn't have to ask questions, feel pain, or wrestle with what was right. Dolls didn't worry about being enough.

It was the first time she realized how heavy it could be to be real—and maybe the first clue that she was beginning to understand more than most eight-year-olds.

That's when Gracie wrote her first poem, at 8 years old. She called it "Thanksgiving."

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Am I Gracie?

You can safely presume that I'm Gracie, and yes, that first poem called Thanksgiving is included in my published poetry book below. I penned it when I was in grade 3; it is childlike and reflects the idealistic mind of an 8-year-old.

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I hope you've enjoyed the story of Gracie's life lesson at eight years old. 🕮

If you're into a longer story, I've penned this short story, The Gift of Knowing (can you sense a theme here?).

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*50 Years of Poetry - We Will Have Morning Smiles, Available on Amazon (A lifetime of my personal poetry). *Commissionsearned

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Sunday, April 27, 2025

5 Years Later: Still Loving My Cubii Under The Desk Elliptical

5 Years Later: The Cubii Under Desk Bike Elliptical Still Gets a Five-Star Rating From Me!

In 2020, my mom gifted me the Cubii Under Desk Elliptical, and five years later, I'm here to tell you it's still one of the best, most-used gifts I've ever received.

I originally reviewed it in 2021, followed up again in 2023, and now, in April 2025, I'm thrilled to say the Cubii has stood the test of time — and if I could, I'd give it 10 out of 5 stars.

Here's why I'm still raving about it after all these years.

Silent, Reliable, and Built to Last

One of the biggest fears with exercise equipment is that it'll wear out, start squeaking, need constant repairs, or you'll just tire of it.

Not the Cubii.

Five years in, and this little powerhouse is still whisper-quiet — no squeaks, no grinding, no weird pedal noises, and used nearly daily.

It's as solid today as it was when I first slid it under my desk five years ago.

The build quality is beyond impressive, and it's clear that this unit was made to last.

More Than Just Exercise — It's Sentimental Too

Since my mom has passed, the Cubii means even more to me now. Every time I pedal, it's like a small connection to her.

She gifted me something not just practical, but something that truly fits into my daily life — and even brings a little piece of her into my everyday routine.

That alone makes it priceless in my eyes. However, beyond that is its exceptional durability, practicality, and benefits.

The Ultimate Companion for Desk Workers and Writers

As I'm typing this very review, I'm pedaling!

That's the beauty of the Cubii — you can get your legs moving while staying creatively productive.

For writers, remote or office workers, and anyone who spends hours at a desk, it's a complete game-changer.

When there's no time for a complete outdoor walk or gym session, you can still sneak in that much-needed movement without missing a beat at work.

Goodbye Guilt, Hello Movement

Ever feel guilty sitting all day? Yeah, me too.

But with the Cubii under my desk, that guilt melts away.

Whether you're tackling a big project, deep into online work, or just stuck indoors, the Cubii helps you stay active without rearranging your schedule.

Movement becomes part of the day, not an afterthought.

A Secret Weapon Against Stress

Another unexpected bonus? Pedaling through stress.

When life throws those inevitable curveballs and the emotional weight starts to build, I hop on the Cubii and pedal with all the energy those feelings bring.

It's amazing how much lighter your mood can feel when you physically move through those heavy emotions.

For Me, the Desk Cubii is Way Better Than a Basement Bike!

My husband always says, "Why don't you use the stationary bike in the basement?" I just laugh.

The Cubii is different — it's right here where I work, ready to go without needing a wardrobe change or a trip downstairs.

Some days, I make a game out of it and challenge myself to see how long I can pedal. Movement is built into my life, not something extra I have to force myself to do.

I Found it to be a Good Choice for Chronic Illness and Autoimmune Warriors (Unfortunately, Like Me)

Living with an arthritic autoimmune disease makes staying active challenging, but the Cubii makes it possible.

I can work for hours without sacrificing gentle movement, which is crucial for managing joint stiffness and overall health.

On days I feel strong, I pedal like a madwoman; on days I'm tired, I give myself grace and rest.

The flexibility it gives me is worth its weight in gold.

Every Office Should Have One!

Every office in every country should have a Cubii under every desk.

It would revolutionize workplace wellness.

A simple piece of equipment like this could increase health, happiness, and productivity.

Such a small thing to add to the lives of thousands of desk warriors!

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Ladies, This Is the Garden Hose You’ve Been Waiting For

Still the Best Garden Hose I've Ever Used - Here's Why

Back in 2020, I first reviewed one of those retractable, expandable lightweight garden hoses—and let me tell you, it was love at first spray.

Fast-forward to today, and it's still the only type of hose I'll use. Once you experience the freedom of not dragging a heavy, stiff, tangled mess around the yard, there's no going back.

This year, I picked up another one for the backyard, and the moment I hooked it up, I was reminded why I fell for it in the first place.

If the marketing teams behind these things aren't focusing on women, especially women who enjoy yard work, they're seriously missing a golden opportunity.

Here's why this hose continues to be a garden essential for me:

1. It's featherlight

Dragging around a traditional hose used to be a full-on workout. This one? I can carry it with one hand while sipping my coffee with the other. It's that light—and yes, that matters.

2. It stores like a dream

When you're done, it shrinks right up and hangs easily over the hose holder. There is no fighting with coils, no awkward loops falling off, and no grumbling required.

3. It saves space

Our 50-foot hose for the backyard takes up a third of the space the old one did. It practically disappears when it's not in use, which is great if you're tired of looking at a messy hose heap.

4. It looks tidy

I never thought I'd describe a hose as "not ugly," but here we are. It's sleek and minimal and doesn't distract from the garden or patio like those bulky green beasts we used to have.

5. No need for bulky wind-up holders

We've got one of those old-school hose boxes in the garage for the front yard, but we didn't want that eyesore cluttering up the backyard. With this hose, you just drape it over a hook or holder and call it a day.

6. Mornings are more leisurely now

One of my favorite parts of the day is watering the plants first thing in the morning. With the old hose, it felt like a chore before I even had my coffee. Now? I pop outside, grab the lightweight hose, water everything in minutes, and actually enjoy the moment.

There are plenty of lightweight expandable hoses out there, and they come in a range of lengths to suit your yard or patio size.