Showing posts with label From the Heart. Show all posts
Showing posts with label From the Heart. Show all posts

Sunday, September 6, 2026

From Living in Light to The Story of Life - A Review of Life

From Living in Light to The Story of Life

A Story and a Song

The Story of Life began with a poem I wrote in January 2020, originally titled Living in Light. I wrote it during a deeply personal time in my life, and I published it on my YouTube channel that same month as an inspirational video poem.

At the time, I had no idea that I would eventually return to those words and turn them into a song. But the message remained meaningful to me, and years later, I felt that the poem had more to say.


The Quiet Moment That Inspired It

The poem was inspired by a quiet moment I shared with my mother during her cancer battle. We were sitting together in a room, each of us simply occupying the same space. There was no special occasion and no grand gesture. We did not need to be doing anything in particular. We were simply together.

As I sat there with her, I became very aware of how meaningful those ordinary moments can be. Sometimes, being present with someone you love is enough. There does not always have to be a conversation or an activity. Sometimes, sharing a quiet moment can become one of the memories that stays with you the longest.

Watching my mother carry such a difficult burden also changed the way I thought about hardship. I saw a quiet strength in her that stayed with me. It made me think about the parts of ourselves that we sometimes believe have been damaged by difficult experiences. Perhaps those parts are not truly broken. Perhaps they are places where new strength can develop.

What I Began to Understand About Aging

That experience also caused me to reflect on aging and the way we change throughout our lives.

As the years pass, our physical appearance changes. We see those changes when we look in the mirror, and sometimes it can be difficult to recognize the person we once were. But I have come to believe that aging has another side that cannot be seen in a reflection.

Inside, something can become lighter.

Our experiences can give us perspective. The things we have survived can teach us. And although our bodies may grow older, our hearts can become more youthful in the way they understand love, wonder, forgiveness, and what truly matters.

A Journey Toward Home

When I think about life, I often picture it as a gentle journey through the sky. We move forward through the years, gradually drifting closer to home.

Along that journey, new lives are beginning. I imagine us passing close to newborns as they enter the world, almost as though the journey connects those leaving one chapter with those just beginning theirs.

There is something beautiful about imagining that the light we have gathered during our lives does not simply disappear. We pass something of ourselves forward. The love we have given, the lessons we have learned, and the light we have carried can continue through others.

Our light does not have to become smaller as our journey progresses. It can become part of something much greater.

Learning to Trust Our Wings

The poem also became a reflection on letting go.

Life teaches us that we cannot hold on to everything forever. Sometimes we have to loosen our grip, trust ourselves, and trust where the journey is taking us.

Pain and tears can change us. They can become part of how we understand ourselves and the world around us. The difficult experiences we would never have chosen can still leave us with something meaningful.

For me, living in the light represents a new beginning. It reminds us that life continues to move forward, and that love has a way of continuing with it.

Turning the Poem Into a Song

Years after writing Living in Light, I decided to transform the poem into a song.

I wanted to preserve the heart of what I had written in 2020, so I worked from the original words and reshaped them into a musical structure. I developed the verses, pre-choruses, choruses, a new verse, a bridge, and an outro, allowing the original poem to take on a completely new form.

The result became The Story of Life.

The song carries the same message that inspired the poem, but it also reflects the years that have passed since I first wrote those words. What began as a quiet moment beside my mother eventually became a much larger reflection on life, aging, love, resilience, loss, and the journey we all take.

Remembering the Original Living in Light

Some may remember this work in its original form, Living in Light. I wrote that inspirational poem in January 2020 and published it on my YouTube channel that same month as a video poem.

The Story of Life is the evolution of those original words. I returned to something I had written during one of the most meaningful quiet moments of my life and gave it a new form through music.

At its heart, the message remains the same. Love continues. Light continues. And when we have truly loved, we have truly lived.

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Sunday, August 30, 2026

Mom's Pickles and Beets - Remembering Mom With a Story and a Song

Mom's Pickles and Beets - Remembering Mom With a Story and a Song


As autumn returns and the cooler weather settles in, my mother has been on my mind every day. 

When the seasons change, my parents come front and center in my thoughts, bringing back all the things I miss about growing up. 

Fall always reminds me of my mom preparing homemade pickles and beets, filling the cellar and freezer up with homemade goodies.

To honor my late mother, I decided to write her this song called Mom's Pickles and Beets. Below, you will find the story of me as a fifteen-year-old girl back in September 1975. I hope you enjoy the story below and the related song.

A Page from My Life in 1975:

September 1975 brought that familiar, sharp chill to the air, signaling the start of a brand new season. I was fifteen years old and it was all in front of me. 

For me, autumn was always the absolute best time of the year, filled with the return of school routines, skating lessons, and the comforting sense that September offered a fresh start.

Coming home at the end of the day meant stepping through the front door into a warm haven. The kitchen always smelled richly of spices and a pot of homemade soup simmering steadily on the stove. 

Countertops would be lined with rows of freshly packed mason jars filled with homemade pickles and beets. My usual routine was to head straight for the living room fireplace to warm my hands, just as Mom would call out from the kitchen, asking me to head down to the basement to handle the laundry basket and grab a container of fudge on the way back up.

Mornings didn't always run smoothly, of course. There were frantic days when sleep got the better of me, and I had to scramble, racing into the kitchen to plead, "Mom, can you drive me? I'm going to be late!"

With a familiar roll of her eyes and a quick, resigned nod, she would agree, usually adding with a knowing smile, "You know, I won't always be here to fix every mess."

More than five decades have slipped away since those days. Yet every time the autumn leaves begin to turn, those memories return just as vividly as ever. 

The scent of her cooking, the quiet warmth of those evenings, and the lasting comfort of her presence remain woven into every part of who I am today. I miss my mother.

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What memories do fall and the changing seasons bring back for you?

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Sunday, August 23, 2026

Borrow My Eyes - A Love Story and A Song

 

Borrow My Eyes - A Love Story and A Song

Borrow My Eyes, A Love Story

He sometimes watches her go about her day and wonders if she has any idea how much of herself she gives to the world around her.

She is naturally giving, not because she has forgotten herself or believes everyone else should come first, but because kindness is simply part of who she is. She knows who she is. She takes care of herself, yet when she moves through life, she sees beyond her own needs. In the smallest decisions and ordinary moments, she thinks of others. She notices what people need. She does what she can. Often without fanfare. Often without anyone realizing how much thought she has put into the simplest things.

And he loves her for all of it.

When they first met, she saw something in him, too.

She could see beyond the person standing in front of her. She sensed the road he had traveled and the pain he had carried. She didn't try to rescue him. She didn't sacrifice herself for him or make his wounds her responsibility. She simply understood that someone who had traveled such a difficult road might need a little more tenderness, a little more patience, and a little extra loving care.

So she gave it freely, simply because that was who she was.

And slowly, without either of them fully realizing it, she became the place he had been searching for his entire life.

Home.

Not just a house. Not just a person he loved. But a feeling he had never truly known before. When he looks at her, he sees quiet after the noise. He sees safety after uncertainty. He sees somewhere he belongs. He sees a life where he can finally exhale.

His life before her had not been easy. He had known pain, carried scars, and traveled through experiences that changed him. But it is never lost on him that, without her, he might never have understood love the way he understands it now.

That is why he wishes he could lend her his eyes.

Just for an hour.


He wishes she could see the woman he sees, the kindness she doesn't always notice in herself, the beauty that goes far deeper than what can be seen, and all the quiet things she does that make his life better. He wishes she could understand that when he looks at her, he doesn't just see the woman he loves.

He sees his fairytale hero.

He sees the person who helped heal wounds she didn't create. The person who erased pain simply by loving him with patience and sincerity. The person who saw his truth and accepted him without asking him to become someone else.

Most of all, he sees home.

And so, through this song, he gives her the only gift he knows she truly needs to understand his heart:

His eyes.

Because if she could see herself the way he sees her, she would finally understand the depth of his love.

"Borrow My Eyes" is his thank you to the woman who gave him more than love; she gave him a place in this world where he finally feels he belongs.

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Sunday, August 16, 2026

She Used To Be Brave - A Story and a Song

 

She Used To Be Brave - A Story and a Song

She Used To Be Brave

She didn't want to move forward.

But she didn't want to go back either.

And staying exactly where she was felt impossible.

For the first time in her life, she found herself standing somewhere she couldn't explain, a place between decisions, between certainty and doubt, between the person she had been and the person she might become. It was a liminal space, though she didn't have a name for it at first.

She only knew she was there.

And somehow, the fact that she couldn't figure out why, bothered her more than the place itself.


The Woman Who Thought She Knew Herself

She had spent most of her life believing she had clarity. She made decisions. She moved forward. She faced things. She had always thought of herself as brave.

Or at least, she used to be.

So why was she standing here now, unable to take the next step?

She wished someone would simply tell her what to do. Just one person. One voice. Someone who could see what she couldn't.

Someone who might reach for her hand and say, Here. This is the way. Step through this door.

But no one came.

And perhaps that was the hardest part.

She began questioning everything.

Was she afraid?

Was she protecting herself?

Had she spent years protecting everyone else, convincing herself that was courage?

Maybe she had been confused for a very long time without realizing it. Maybe she had been lost without knowing she was lost.

That thought frightened her.

Because if she had been wrong about being lost, what else had she misunderstood about herself?

She had always known one thing for certain: she was hopeful.

Hope had carried her through difficult days. Hope had given her reasons to keep going when she couldn't see what was waiting ahead.

But now even that certainty began to trouble her.

Could Hope Be Keeping Her There?

She wondered if hope could become another kind of hiding.

Perhaps she had been holding onto hope so tightly that she had forgotten to reach for anything else.

Hope that something would change.

Hope that someone would appear.

Hope that eventually, the right door would simply open.

But what if it never did?

What if she had to choose one?

Forward or backward.

Stay or leave.

Fear or courage.

The questions circled endlessly through her mind, and still she couldn't find an answer.

Then she realized something she hadn't considered before.

Maybe being brave had never meant knowing exactly where to go.

Maybe bravery wasn't certainty.

Maybe it was standing in the middle of uncertainty and taking one step anyway.

She looked ahead.

Nothing had changed. The doors were still there. The path was still unclear.

No one had come to take her hand.

But for the first time, she didn't wait for someone to show her the way.

She took a breath.

And stepped toward the door.

Not because she knew what was on the other side.

But because she finally understood that she didn't have to know.

Perhaps that was the courage she had been searching for all along.

The courage to move without answers.

The courage to become someone new.

The courage to remember the woman she used to be and finally discover the woman she could still become.

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Sunday, July 26, 2026

Finding Your Footing When the Storms of Life Roll In

 

Finding Your Footing When the Storms of Life Roll In

The Weight of the Currents We Navigate

Life has a way of testing our endurance when we least expect it. Writing Breathing Underwater came from a place of recognizing that heavy, overwhelming feeling when the challenges of daily life start pulling you under. We all face our own storms, and the chorus speaks directly to that shared human experience. Life is rarely perfect, and in one way or another, we are all in the same boat trying to stay afloat.

Instead of focusing purely on distress, this track explores what happens when you stop the frantic struggle against the current. It is about discovering a quiet, unexpected capacity to endure simply by pausing the fight and finding your footing again.

Designing a Safe Harbor Through Sound

Finding the exact musical tone to bring these words to life proved to be the most challenging part of the entire process. Crafting a soundscape from scratch takes time and a lot of patience.

For this piece, the vision was very specific. The goal was to avoid adding extra heaviness to a world that already carries plenty of it. To achieve that balance, I intentionally created a softer, easy-listening musical vibe that acts as the opposite of the words. That juxtaposition was completely deliberate, designed to honor genuine exhaustion with deep empathy while offering a soothing atmosphere that points toward a clear, empowering sky above.

Finding Calm Amidst the Storms

At its core, this song serves as a reminder for anyone going through hard days that even when you feel deep in the middle of a struggle, you possess the inner resolve to rise again and realize there is nothing to fear.

Thank you for taking the time to read and listen. I hope this piece brings you a measure of calm amidst whatever storms you might be facing right now.

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Sunday, July 19, 2026

The Life I Built From Broken Things - A Song Review

 

The Life I Built From Broken Things - A Song Review

When You're Done Trying to Put Your Name in the Sand

Have you ever had one of those days, or years, where it felt like you were trying to write your name in the sand while the tide was coming in at full speed? 

You keep smoothing it out, trying to make it stay, but the water just wipes it away again and again.

Although I'm a positive person, I do feel this way at times. I spent a long time thinking that if I could keep everything neat and predictable, I was winning. Not anymore. Life has a way of showing us that some things are out of our control. 

I poured these thoughts into a new song called "The Life I Built From Broken Things". It has become my own little anthem, and I wanted to share it with you because we all need the reminder that we are tougher than we give ourselves credit for.


Building Something Real When You Are in a Crunch

When things fall apart, our first instinct is often to worry. We look at the mess and think, "Well, that is it. I am done." I have been there. You look at your life and see the broken floorboards and the leaks, and you feel like the whole thing is coming down.

But we don't have to fix the whole house in a single day. Recovery is often quiet and slow. It is just one band-aid at a time, as I wrote in the song. It's deciding that even though the floor has holes in it, we will still sweep up the sand. There's something beautiful about building a life out of our broken things. 

It means the foundation is not just some perfect, sterile thing. It is made of experience. It is made of the times we fell down and got back up anyway.

Why a Little Stubbornness Is Actually a Good Thing

If anyone tells you that you are being too stubborn, take it as a compliment. There is a specific kind of stubbornness that I think is a superpower. It is that quiet, deep-down refusal to let the storm win.

In my song, I wrote, "I'm just too stubborn to know how to fail." People might look at your life and see the rain or the struggle. But they don't see the work you are doing when you hide your wings. They can't see the way you are reinforcing the walls in the dark, preparing for the moment you're ready to fly again.

I've learned that the one thing nobody can take away from me is me.

You're the only person who can decide when you're done. If you haven't decided you're done, then you're not failing. You're still in the middle of the project.

We Don't Have to Be Perfect to Be Strong

It is perfectly okay to have weak days. We're human. It's going to happen. We don't have to be a superhero every single day. It's okay to be tired or frustrated. It's only part of your story, not the whole story.

I believe that every tiny, incremental inch we move forward counts. Even if it is just one nail you hammer in, it's progress. The life you are building might look different than the one you started with, but it is yours. 

Thanks for letting me share this with you. I hope that if you are going through a storm right now, these words give you a little bit of shelter. You've got this.

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Tuesday, July 7, 2026

Journals Can Be a Tool

The word journaling is an overall broad term, which I have gathered to mean, to basically free-write whatever you want to write about.

It can be about a memory, a feeling, a desired outcome, a plan for your day, and I'm sure you may come up with others.


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The one that I want to talk about today, is a way that I recently used journaling. I wrote about an instance that I wasn't sure what I wanted to do to proceed. I initially wrote just to get my thoughts down so that I could more easily move forward, and stop giving so much of my thoughts to that instance.

However, once I achieved that, what I felt like was my next step, in order to more fully move on, was to make what I came to, into an affirmation.

I was so pleased with how that went, that I decided to repeat the process. I wrote about another instance that I had been trying to get beyond, with the single purpose of wanting to get to an affirmation about it.

It worked the second time too, even knowing I had an intention of turning what I would come to, into an affirmation.

I found this very helpful. If I had tried to write an affirmation first, it probably would have felt not as complete. There probably would have been some unfinished thoughts that just need to get dealt with.

So I am glad that I used this two step approach.

I used a plain lined notebook, in which I can freely write my thoughts and ultimately what I want to come from them; and a second book, in which I can write down my affirmation that I came too.

The second book is the one that I will keep, from which I can read my affirmations, for however long I want to use those pages.

The free flowing journaling that I did, still has blank lined pages in it for whenever I want to do this again, for whatever reason or purpose. The writings that I did, however, I removed. I tore them up, and threw them away. They had served their purpose. There was no reason to revisit them.

There are a variety of notebooks in my CherylsArt store on Zazzle, if you would like a unique and or personalized notebook.

The sunflower design is an example of one.




There are also plain designs if you prefer something that doesn't have personalization on it, such as this leopard print notebook.



You can browse all the notebook designs here. The larger notebooks no Zazzle seem to show a variety of inside paper styles to choose from. The smaller notebooks, however, do not show that option when I have been browsing. However, if you see a design that you like, click on it, and then check below the featured product that you clicked on, for options to transfer the design to, and select spiral notebook. That should give you the inside paper design options.

Might you give this two step journaling method a try?

Happy journaling and or affirmation writing.

Cheryl Paton



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Sunday, June 14, 2026

A Father's Day In Heaven - A Message From Dad

A Father's Day In Heaven - A Message From Dad

Sharing This For Those Who Have Lost Their Father

Eleven years ago, in June 2015, I found myself navigating a grief that felt impossibly heavy. It had been two years since I lost my father, and the silence he left behind was deafening. Like so many others walking the path of bereavement, I was haunted by a singular, persistent question: "Is he okay?"

That ache became the foundation of "A Father's Day in Heaven."

Back then, I did not just want to write a memorial; I needed to create a bridge. I sat down and wrote from his perspective, desperate to hear, in my own heart, the words: "I'm okay, Barb. I'm okay." Those lines were never meant to be a performance. They were my own personal lifeline, a reminder that while death changes our relationship, it does not sever the tether of love.

From a Memorial to a Musical Story

Throughout the last decade, I have seen that same question: "Is my parent okay"? echoed by so many who share in this loss. It is a universal longing for reassurance.

Because of this, I decided it was time to breathe new life into those original 2015 words. On June 13, 2026, I revisited the piece, expanding it into a full-fledged song and lyric video. 

While the soul of the lyrics remains rooted in the comfort I sought years ago, I composed an entirely new second verse to deepen the narrative.



The Message: He Is Still With You

Ultimately, this song is a message of profound peace. Through these lyrics, the father figure speaks to his daughter not from a place of absence but from a place of continued presence. 

He reminds her, and anyone listening, that they are never truly alone. His greatest hope, reflected in the lyrics, is that we continue to embrace our lives with joy, even in the shadow of loss.

Whether you are missing your own dad this Father's Day or grieving another cherished soul, my hope is that these lyrics offer you a moment of solace. 

May these words remind you that love remains, steady and unbroken.

🎵 Production Note: I write and produce all story-driven lyrics. The vocals and instrumental elements are digitally produced. I am not the singer. I personally direct and arrange both the video and the recording. 🎵© 2026 DragedaLyrics (B.T.C) - All Rights Reserved | Original Lyrics Authored: Circa 2015 | Sound Recording: Produced With Digital Assistance (Vocals and Instrumental) 2026. Licensed Digital Composition (Commercial Rights Held).

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Sunday, May 31, 2026

A Daughter's Journey: The Reality of Caregiving for Your Mom

A Daughter's Journey: The Reality of Caregiving for Your Mom

This piece is incredibly personal to me, capturing the fading chapter of my mother's life as we navigated the grueling journey of caregiving. 

While it was a time of immense challenge and heartache, I would do it all over again just to be with her. I miss her so much; if I could give my breath to see her for even a minute, I would. These lyrics were written specifically from what occurred during that time in my life, yet I know this is not just my story. It is a description of the reality for millions of mothers and daughters who have walked this difficult path.

Here's The Lyric Storyboard I Wrote & Produced To Tell This Story:

Because this is a four-minute song, every line carries a specific purpose and meaning. While I cannot detail the entire narrative here, I want to highlight the core moments that defined this journey.

In the first verse, I write, "I watched you in the kitchen trying to lift that small plate; it hurt to see you struggle to do the basic things each day." While it sounds simple, this was a daily, painful occurrence. Whether it was opening a jar or managing the simple act of lifting, her hands would shake, and we had to find tools to assist her. It was a constant reminder of how life had shifted into something far more fragile.

I also wrote, "To me, you were the bravest with everything you had to face, you'd always say 'I'm fine' knowing that wasn't the case." My mother was from the "I'm fine" generation. Even when the doctors looked at her test results and then turned to me with concern, she would insist, "I'm fine, Barb, don't worry." As I get older, I've come to understand that she didn't want anyone to reiterate her ailments; she already knew them. But at the time, it was frustrating to watch her try to hold her struggle back to protect us. It was a valiant effort, and I didn't want to break her strength, but we saw the truth behind the words.

The chorus asks, "Mama, I can't fix it, I can't make this go away. I can only hold your hand now while you whisper I'm okay." When I wrote this, I kept thinking about what I would do if I had magic powers. I couldn't "fix" the aging process, but I realized what I truly wanted: to step back in time and live just one day when she was in her prime.

There are other realities referenced in the song, like the challenge of getting in and out of her lift chair, and the terrifying process of the stairs. I remember walking directly behind her, leaning against her for support as she held the railing; this was the same woman who once ran the world and bossed us all around. Watching that shift requires a kind of strength you never knew you possessed.

Finally, I believe a song needs to reach for the light. I don't provide a perfect ending, but I do create something uplifting. I end the song with the image of my father coming for her when she passed. I'm standing there, feeling a sense of relief knowing he had her hand, that he was holding her when she crossed over, and that I will be with them again when it is my time.

If you are going through this, or have walked this road, I totally understand your agony. I know the absolute struggle of this experience. My heart is with you, and I truly hope this song brings you a little bit of empathetic peace.

🎵 I write and produce story-driven lyrics. Vocals and music are digitally produced (I am not the singer). I digitally direct and arrange the video and recording.🎵 ©2026 DragedaPoemsLyrics (B.T.C) - All Rights Reserved - Original Lyrics Authored | Sound Recording: Produced With Digital Assistance (Vocals and Instrumental) 2026. Licensed Digital Composition (Commercial Rights Held).

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Tuesday, May 26, 2026

Overview of TrendyFlipFlops on Zazzle

This is the seventh of a seven part series of my various stores on Zazzle.

This store is called TrendyFlipFlops and it is all about flipflops. The categories are all about the type of design.


flipflops


The design categories are:

Abstract Flip Flops: You will find a selection of my abstract designs which includes both dark and bright options.

Animal Flip Flops: Flying pink pigs, and kaliedoscope cats are the options so far in this one.

Autumn Flip Flops: Here you will find an assortment of leaves and pumpkin designs.

Beach Flip Flops: When you browse beach flip flops, you will find beach scenes, and also colorful beach balls.





Bride Flip Flops: There are a variety of designs that will work great for weddings; however there is no specific wedding category. There is a bride category though. These flip flops can be customized. Many brides are choosing comfort over style when it comes to their feet on their wedding day. I think that's pretty cool.






Butterfly Flip Flops: These butterflies might be considered more abstract, but I figured they'd be easier to find if I placed them in a Butterfly category.

Christmas Flip Flops: Flip flops are considered a warm weather shoe or sandal. For those who find themselves in a warm weather location over the Christmas and winter holidays, their flip flops can still fit the season.





Floral Flip Flops: Here you will find a mix of realistic, photo, and abstract designs.

Fruit Flip Flops: As of the writing of this blog, the current choices are lemons, realistic pineapples, and more artistic pineapples.

New Products: As mentioned in my earlier blogs about my various stores on Zazzle, the New Products category is automatically assigned by Zazzle. There are usually no products in this category, unless I happen to assign a category when designing a product.

Patriotic Flip Flops: Here you will find a couple of fireworks designs, and a star pattern design in red, white, and blue.

Patterns and Shapes: The Patterns and Shapes category was growing. Instead of making subcategories for this, I made two additional categories; one being Polka Dot Flip Flops, and the other one being Striped Flip Flops. The remaining designs in this category includes hearts, circles, weave patterns, and more.

Polka Dot Flip Flops: There are several colors to choose from here, and also a couple of black and white designs.

Striped Flip Flops: There are a variety of striped patterns and colors to choose from here. This is my favorite striped pattern. It reminds me of the straight swirled candies that you can find in places like Cracker Barrel.






These categories are displayed on my landing page for my TrendyFlipFlops store.


I hope you have enjoyed finding out about my various Zazzle stores, and that my overviews have helped or will help you find what you are looking for.

Cheryl Paton




Index of my Overviews of my stores on Zazzle:

https://www.reviewthisreviews.com/2026/04/overview-of-cherylsart-on-zazzle.html
https://www.reviewthisreviews.com/2026/04/overview-of-cherylsartphotos-on-zazzle.html
https://www.reviewthisreviews.com/2026/04/overview-of-custom-flash-cards-on-zazzle.html
https://www.reviewthisreviews.com/2026/05/overview-of-mazepuzzles-on-zazzle.html
https://www.reviewthisreviews.com/2026/05/overview-of-positiveaffirmation-on.html
https://www.reviewthisreviews.com/2026/05/overview-of-scrapbookbackgrounds-on.html
https://www.reviewthisreviews.com/2026/05/overview-of-trendyflipflops-on-zazzle.html




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Sunday, May 24, 2026

A Wedding Day Message From A Mother in Heaven

A Wedding Day Message From A Mother in Heaven

I wrote and produced A Mother's Wedding Blessing from Heaven on May 20th, 2026, as part of my continuing wedding series collection of original songs and lyrics.

Over time, I've wanted this collection to reflect not only the joy and celebration surrounding weddings, but also the deeper emotions that so often exist quietly beneath the surface. Weddings are filled with love, hope, memories, family traditions, and sometimes heartbreak, too.

This particular song was inspired by daughters who are preparing for one of the most important days of their lives without their mother physically beside them.

I had previously written a song honoring fathers who had passed who would not be present for a wedding day, but I kept thinking about the mother-daughter bond and how uniquely deep that relationship can be. For many women, their mother is the person they imagined helping them choose a dress, calming their nerves, sharing tears of joy, and witnessing the beginning of a new chapter.

When that presence is missing, the loss can feel overwhelming.

With this song, I wanted to create something that could bring comfort during those moments. Here's the song as posted on the Lyrics About Life Facebook page.

Maybe it's played privately while getting ready for the ceremony. Maybe it becomes part of a bridal shower playlist, a quiet tribute during a wedding weekend, or simply a song a bride listens to alone when she needs to feel close to her mother again.

More than anything, I wanted the song to carry reassurance.

The heart of the message is that a mother's love does not disappear. In the lyrics, the mother watches over her daughter throughout the wedding journey. She sees the choices she's making, the emotions she's carrying, and the woman she has become.

One of the most important ideas I wanted to express is that every mother hopes for her daughter's happiness above all else. No mother wishes hardship upon her child. Deep down, every mother wants her daughter to find her own version of a fairy-tale ending: a life filled with love, safety, and happiness.

That thought became the emotional center of the song.

I also included reflections on childhood, because weddings often bring back memories of growing up, moments that suddenly feel close again. A wedding day can remind someone not only of who they are becoming, but also of where they came from and who helped shape them.

To every daughter experiencing this kind of loss, my heart truly goes out to you.

I hope A Mother's Wedding Blessing from Heaven brings even a small measure of peace and comfort, and reminds you that love does not end simply because someone is no longer physically here. On a day as meaningful as your wedding day, the bond between a mother and daughter can still be deeply felt in the quietest moments.

Sometimes love stays beside us in ways we cannot see, but still somehow feel.

Note: This song is also available on YouTube, but the version featured in this post is the final version that will be released to streaming services at the end of June 2026.

I made one small change before release by reducing the percussion near the end. The YouTube version still contains the earlier mix.

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Tuesday, May 19, 2026

Overview of ScrapbookBackgrounds on Zazzle

This is the sixth of a seven part series of my various stores on Zazzle.

This store features my designs on double sided paper, rubber stamps, and custom binders that can be used for this fun and creative scrapbooking craft. Besides scrapbooking, these fun paper choices can be used in card making, creating vision boards, and more. What might you make with scrapbook paper?


Scrapbook Paper
Scrapbook Paper




New Products:

The first category listed in this store is New Products, which is a catch category in case I didn't already select a category when I designed the product. This category is automatically included by Zazzle.

The remaining categories are Scrapbook Albums, Scrapbook Paper, and Scrapbooking Stamps.

Scrapbook Albums:

Binders are used for the scrapbook albums and they can also be used as photo albums. So far, there are options for baby, graduation, and wedding. There aren't any subcategories at this point. The main design is on the front, and parts of that design are included on the spine and back. The graduation binder is an example.




Scrapbook Paper:

There are a variety of subcategories in the Scrapbook Paper section. I did not include a specific subcategory for Wedding, as many of the blends, heart designs, patterns, etc., can be used for wedding backgrounds as well as for other themes and events, as in this turquoise polka dot option. I can see this being a pretty background design for a turquoise or teal themed wedding or even as stationery.




As of this writing, the current subcategories are: Abstract, Affirmations, Animal Prints, Autumn, Baby, Blends, Blue, Christmas, Floral, Graduation, Halloween, Heart, Patterns and Shapes, Peace, Pink, Rustic and Vintage, Shamrock, Swirl, and Turquoise.

There can be quite a few that overlap in these subcategories; you may want to search for a particular color, design type, etc., to help locate the design theme that you are looking for.

Scrapbook Stamps:

These are rubber stamps, used for stamping. There are a variety of designs here to choose from, but currently no subcategories. It is just shy of having more than one page of items to peruse. When ordering a rubber stamp and looking a product page, Zazzle will show you the colors of ink pads that are available for purchase.

Quite a few of these designs are outline designs, which one can color in whenever they are making their paper craft design. For instance, the umbrella drawing can be used for a rainy day card, or a scrapbook featuring baby. The umbrella and handle can be colored in, by hand, to coordinate with whatever you are creating.




A lot of these backgrounds can be found in the scrapbook paper in paperbacks that I designed using Canva. I have posted these paperbacks on Amazon through KDP. Many of the designs in the paperbacks are further embellished with different items from Canva. You can check out my index of these paperback books here for your scrapbooking and other paper creation desires: Cheryl Paton Scrapbook Paper.

Thank you for visiting. Your comments and questions are welcome. Happy scrapbooking.

Cheryl Paton


Index of my Overviews of my stores on Zazzle:
https://www.reviewthisreviews.com/2026/04/overview-of-cherylsart-on-zazzle.html
https://www.reviewthisreviews.com/2026/04/overview-of-cherylsartphotos-on-zazzle.html
https://www.reviewthisreviews.com/2026/04/overview-of-custom-flash-cards-on-zazzle.html
https://www.reviewthisreviews.com/2026/05/overview-of-mazepuzzles-on-zazzle.html
https://www.reviewthisreviews.com/2026/05/overview-of-positiveaffirmation-on.html
https://www.reviewthisreviews.com/2026/05/overview-of-scrapbookbackgrounds-on.html
https://www.reviewthisreviews.com/2026/05/overview-of-trendyflipflops-on-zazzle.html




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