An Unconventional Lady by Sarah E. Ladd - Book Review

This book is not my normal Regency Romance to read.  It is more of a mystery than a romance, which was nice for a change.  

It took a few pages to grab my interest, mostly because I was not familiar with the term phrenology.  That pseudoscience was long ago debunked.  It claimed there was a way to determine ones intellect, morality, and personality traits by the shape of their head/skull.  I am sure there are many criminologists and detectives who would like for it to be a true science.  It certainly would be easier to determine who was likely to commit a crime, to lie, or to be unfaithful.

As always, the Regency Romance was set in the early 1800's when women were not given very much independence.  This book was also unique in that sense because the main character was encouraged by her parents to be educated, to think for herself, and to really consider a subject instead of just accepting it as presented. 

It also offered a unique setting by taking place at Keatley Hall School for Young Men, which was established by Ella Wilde's grandfather.  Her grandfather was the first headmaster.  He was succeeded by Ella's father even though her mother was her grandfather's daughter.  With this decision, it was established that the daughter's husband would be the next headmaster.  Selecting a headmaster was paramount to selecting Ella's husband, and Ella was not fond of her father's choice.  

 

Synopsis of An Unconventional Lady

 An Unconventional Lady: A Low-Spice Regency RomanceCheck PriceElla is faced with several issues all at once.  First, she wasn't keen on the man her father had chosen as her husband and the next headmaster for the school.  Second, she would soon be required to serve as hostess for the upcoming symposium on Phrenology, a theory she could not logically embrace.  And last, her mother had been "analyzed" and the results had been documented in an unflattering published pamphlet.  Unfortunately, her mother had died and was unable to defend herself.  Plus, how she died in a fire allowed a lot of speculation on the cause of the fire.  Some thought her mother must have been responsible.

When Ella encounters Gabriel Rowe, a previous Keatley Hall School student, she is immediately drawn to him.  The fact that he is loyal to Keatley Hall makes him even more attractive to her.  

Gabriel is a London solicitor who has been hired to investigate the speaker at the upcoming symposium.  Ella personally invites him to Keatley Hall and the symposium so he has a way to investigate Thomas Bauer, the phrenologist speaker and demonstrator, without drawing suspicion. 

The events that follow, as well as the discovery of past truths, make this an intriguing book to read.  The touch of mystery and suspense, coupled with the budding romance between Ella and Gabriel, make the perfect combination for a great book.         

 

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Missouri Botanical Gardens in the Winter

 

Explore Missouri Botanical Gardens

In St. Louis we have a beautiful botanical garden that has been in continuous operation since 1859.  It was founded by Henry Shaw and is one of the few gardens to achieve National Historic Landmark status.  I have spent many hours visiting the garden during the spring, summer, and fall times, but until this year, I had not visited it in the winter.  What a delightful experience!  In February my son and his family were visiting us from New Hampshire, and I took my daughter-in-law and two granddaughters to visit the gardens.  We had a wonderful time.  

Orchid Show

I had often seen photos of the annual orchid show but had never been to the garden to see it.  This show is held in February when the more than 5000 individual plants are moved from the greenhouses to the Emerson Conservatory.  The botanical garden has over 700 unique kinds of orchids, which are cared for year-round by the horticulture staff.  Here are a few of my favorite photos from the orchid show.

Growing Orchids at Home

In the brochure we received at the orchid show there is a section that talks about how easy orchids are to grow at home under the right conditions.  Here some key points.

• Potting medium  - many orchids grow best when their roots are exposed to the air.  There are mixes for the pot that help with this aeration.
• Temperature- most orchids are comfortable at room temperature- 60-80 F 
• Humidity- 40-70% is ideal, this can be achieved by placing pots on a gravel-lined try filled with water.
• Light- Orchids like a sunny room or artificial lights.  If leaves turn yellow or lanky they need more light.
• Water- Make sure potting mix nearly dries out before watering again.

I found this book on Amazon that helps you in growing orchids.

No Stress Orchid Gardening for Beginners

Chinese Garden

It was a beautiful day out, so after visiting the orchid show I took my granddaughters and daughter-in-law to some of my favorite spots in the garden.  There were not any flowers blooming at this time of the year but the beauty of the sculptures and structures around the park made for a delightful visit.

Our first stop was at the Chinese Garden, this garden was designed by Chinese born architect Yong Pan.  It is modeled after "scholars gardens" in the southern provinces of China.  

Here are some of the photos I took of my granddaughters exploring the garden.

Japanese Garden

A favorite place of mine to explore at the gardens is the Japanese Garden.  I wanted to show this to my granddaughters, so we took a stroll to the garden and walked around the lake to experience all of the sculptures and features of the Japanese Garden.  This 14-acre garden is called Seiw-en and was dedicated in 1977.  I have photographed it often through the years. Here are some of my photos.

The Garden through the Years

I have taken photography classes at the garden and have enjoyed my visits through the years.  Here are some other reviews I have written on the garden.

Japanese Garden

Missouri Botanical Garden

Origami in the Garden

Garden Photography Tips

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The President's Daughter - Book Review

 The President's Daughter is the second collaboration by former President Bill Clinton and the master of thrillers, James Patterson. Their first book is The President is Missing, and the third is The First Gentleman. I reviewed The First Gentleman last month, and I'm just starting The President Is Missing.

The Plot: The President's Daughter

Matthew Keating was a one-term president and a former Navy Seal. As you can imagine, being the president of the United States, Matthew surely made some enemies along the way.

Matthew and his daughter, Melanie, are living a quiet life in New Hampshire, while his wife, Samantha, is off teaching in Boston.

His world is shattered when his daughter Melanie is kidnapped by a terrorist with a long-standing grudge against him.

Matthew was a one-term president and did not get along with his successor. Now he finds himself unsupported by the very government he served. Now, he is forced to return to his elite Navy Seal skills, taking matters into his own hands to bring Melanie home.

Patterson did an excellent job of navigating between political friction and the personal aspect of a father's worst nightmare.

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Copycat Tate's Cookie Recipe Review

 If you are a Tate's cookie fan than you can spot the infamous green bag of Tate's from a distance at your favorite market (or white bag if gluten free). My local market first started carrying Tate's, the original Chocolate Chip flavor, known for its' crispy buttery flavor; the market now carries the entire line of cookies including gluten free. 

If you like your chocolate chip cookies on the crispy side then you will enjoy Tates! I came across a copycat recipe for Tate's Chocolate Chip Cookies which I have tried quite a few times and found very enjoyable. Not exactly the same of course as the original Tate's but still yummy on its' own.

CopyCat Tate's Chocolate Chip Cookie Recipe

Ingredients

• 2 cups all purpose flour
• 1 tsp baking soda
• 1 tsp salt
• 1 cup salted butter
• 3/4 cups sugar
• 3/4 cup dark brown sugar, firmly packed
• 1 tsp water
•  1 tsp vanilla
• 2 large eggs
• 2 cups semisweet chocolate chips

Heat oven to 350 degrees.  Serving size is a medium to large cookie. Line cookie sheets with parchment paper. 

1. Combine dry ingredients and set aside.
2. Cream softened butter and the two sugars in another bowl.
3. Then add vanilla and water to the sugar creamed mixture.
4. Add eggs, mix together. 
5. Stir flour mixture into bowl. 
6. Fold in chocolate chips.
7. Bake at 350 degrees for 12-16 minutes depending on your oven and how large you make the cookies.

Medium-Large cookie size is 1.5 tablespoons of dough per cookie. Adjust up or down to your preference and don't forget to adjust baking time.

History of Tate's

The idea and recipe behind Tate's is from Kathleen King from the Hamptons.  She has been creating desserts since 1980 and has two cookbooks: Baking For Friends and the Tate’s Bake Shop Cookbook still available on Amazon or used online book sites. As Tate's grew through the years with the inevitable ups and lulls business' encounter, Tate's rise and success of it's products was ultimately purchased in 2018 by Mondelez for a reported 500 million dollars.

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My Song About Love at First Sight - Marry Me Fool

I have always found love songs difficult to write.

Not because I don't believe in love — I absolutely do — but because it's so easy for a love song to slide into something overly sweet or just plain corny. A few too many dreamy lines, and suddenly it starts sounding like something that belongs inside a greeting card.

That's never really been my style.

Even when I was young, writing about couples' love wasn't what I naturally reached for. Most people enjoy writing poems or lyrics about romance, but I usually find myself writing about other parts of life, emotions, observations, and the things people quietly go through.

Lately, though, I've been pushing myself a little.

I decided to build a small collection of songs centered around relationships, weddings, and love stories. And when I sat down to write one, I realized the only way it would feel natural for me was to approach it as a story, not just a description of love.

That's how Marry Me – Fool began - It's become my husband's favorite so far of all that I've written:

A Moment on a Train Platform

I wrote these lyrics on March 3rd, 2026, as part of that little challenge I gave myself.

Since I've been married for over forty years, trying to step back into those early romantic feelings can feel a bit strange. Love deepens over time. It becomes steadier and quieter. It's beautiful, but it's different from those younger emotions when everything feels sudden and electric.

So instead of trying to recreate the feeling directly, I imagined a moment.

A crowded train station.

People are moving in every direction, all focused on their own lives. And amid all that movement, a man notices a woman standing on the platform.

Something about her catches his attention immediately. Maybe it's the way she carries herself. Maybe it's something he can't explain. But he knows he doesn't want to lose sight of her.

So he pushes through the crowd and boards the same train car she's getting on.

They don't speak during the ride. In fact, most of the story unfolds in silence — two strangers sharing the same space while he quietly hopes for a moment to connect.

That moment finally comes when the train reaches its stop.

He steps off, turns back toward her, and reaches out his hand, asking if she'd like help stepping down.

Those few words are the first time they have ever spoken to each other.

By the end of the song, five years have passed, and they're still together.

And it all started with a glance across a crowded platform and a quiet train ride where almost nothing was said.

I think stories like that stay with us because they tap into something many of us have wondered about at some point — those moments when someone walks into view and, for reasons we can't fully explain, they capture our attention completely.

Writing Marry Me – Fool reminded me that sometimes love stories don't begin with big declarations.

Sometimes they begin with something much simpler.

A crowded station.

A quiet train ride.

And a hand reaching out at exactly the right time.

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