On June 4, 2020, I kicked off a new series of posts reviewing my
    experiences during
    My First Year on the Keto Diet
    and sharing some of my insights and lessons learned over the course of my
    successful journey so far. Since that post was published, I’ve lost another
    pound, even though I’m no longer actively trying to lose weight, bringing my
    total weight loss since May 25, 2019 to 57 pounds. I am healthier and feel
    better than I have in decades. (Oh, and being able to wear shorts and
    sleeveless tops this summer without feeling embarrassed feels pretty
    amazing, too!)
  
    
      
         
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  Last spring, after a serious medical scare when I learned that being obese and
  post-menopausal had put me at significantly higher risk for endometrial cancer, among other
    life-threatening diseases, my doctor stressed the importance of losing my
    50+ pounds of excess weight. I had tried many times to strictly limit my
    consumption of the foods I constantly craved—sugars, grains, and other foods
    that are high in carbohydrates or highly processed—and failed just as many
    time.
   After reading a lot about what causes those types of food cravings and how
    to lose weight without giving into them, I realized that I and many others
    with an obesity problem had become psychologically, emotionally, and in some
    ways, almost physically addicted to those foods, and in my case, it probably
    dated back to my childhood. Note: If you're interested in learning more
    about this phenomenon, the journal articles,
    "Food Addiction: Implications for the Diagnosis and Treatment of
      Overeating,"
    Nutrients, September 2019, and
    "Sugar Addiction: From Evolution to Revolution,"
    Frontiers in Psychiatry, November 2018, discuss it in depth.
  
    The good news: I finally understood why all my previous efforts to lose
    weight and keep it off had failed. The bad news: Losing enough weight to
    meaningfully lower my risk for developing cancer and other life-threatening
    illnesses—and keeping it off—wouldn't be as simple as just cutting back on
    calories, sugar, and flour, and getting more exercise. Achieving those goals
    would require an all-in commitment to overcoming my roughly 60-year-long
    carbohydrate, processed foods, and sugar addiction for good.
  
  Preparing for Success on the Keto Diet
 From personal experience, I knew that no matter how badly I wanted and
    needed to succeed, or how hard I tried, desire and effort without the proper
    preparation would not be enough to make that success a reality. To quote
    legendary former college football coach Bobby Knight (who won 902 NCAA
    Division I men's college basketball games and knows a thing or two about
    critical success factors),
    "The will to succeed is important, but what's more important is the
        will to prepare."
    Choosing to spend a few weeks preparing myself mentally, psychologically,
    socially, and environmentally before giving up the foods I was addicted to
    "cold turkey," whether temporarily or for good, was one of the best
    decisions I made.
    Following the most important things I focused on during those weeks of
    preparation that helped me be successful on my keto weight loss journey.
 
  Making a Serious Commitment to Losing Weight and Eating Better
  I was overweight and, yes, clinically obese, for decades, and it made me
    miserable. It badly eroded my self-esteem. And as a former clotheshorse who
    worked in the fashion industry in New York City for many years, it was
    painful to try on beautiful clothes and see how bad they looked on me (or
    how bad I looked in them). In retrospect, even that constant pain and shame
    must not have been enough motivation to make the dramatic, long-term changes
    to my eating habits needed to lose the excess pounds, since my many attempts
    at dieting over the years had all failed.
 
    This time, my serious medical scare provided a powerful enough motivation to
    make me commit 100% to fundamentally change my way of eating, and choosing
    better quality, more nutritious, and less processed foods. Without that kick
    in the butt, I doubt I would have succeeded this time, either. I encourage
    you to think about what your motivation is to commit to this much more
    restrictive way of eating.
  
    Many people boast that they have lost a lot of weight following their own
    version of a ketogenic diet that includes "cheating" on a regular basis, or
    even a planned rotation schedule of being "on" and "off" keto. Others might
    lose weight using a less restrictive variation of the classic keto diet
    approach, such as so-called dirty or lazy keto. If that works for them,
    great!
  
      I can only share what has worked for me, an approach that I chose based on
    my own situation, goals, and self-knowledge based on past experience.
    Everyone is different. As always, your mileage (and your choices) may
    vary.
  Researching the Keto Diet and Understanding Its Basic Concepts
  Keto is a low carb, high fat, moderate protein approach to eating, often
    referred to as LCHF (low carb, high fat). Regardless of whether you follow
    this dietary approach or what foods you eat, losing weight requires a
    calorie deficit, i.e., you need to eat fewer calories than your body uses.
    On a ketogenic diet, most of your calories should come from healthy fats, a
    smaller percentage should come from from proteins, and very few calories
    should come from carbohydrates (and, ideally, mostly from low-carb
    vegetables and berries).
  
    That's a very simplified overview, and I had to do weeks of extensive
    research and reading before I had a good grasp on all the most important
    aspects of this way of eating. Here are a few of the many resources that
    helped me educate myself on this subject.
  
  Helpful Online Guides and Articles
  - 
    "The Ketogenic Diet - A Keto Guide for Beginners"
      on ruled.me is one of the best places to start familiarizing yourself with
      the keto or low carb approach to eating. It contains lots of helpful,
      actionable, easy-to-understand information and advice, including
      explanations of macros and net carbs.
  
 
Recommended Books
Although I focused primarily on cookbooks, some also contained helpful
    information, explanations, and inspiration for anyone interested in living a
    low-carb lifestyle, like these:
  
  I also own two wonderful cookbooks by well known, highly respected keto
    diet author and expert Maria Emmerich and look forward to adding
    this book, which she co-wrote with her husband, to my growing collection:
  My Favorite Keto Related YouTube Channels
Strict vs. Lazy vs. Dirty Keto
  
   As I explained in
      my previous post, there is no such thing as "the" keto diet (or ketogenic diet) outside
      the context of certain medical treatments. There is only "a"
      keto/ketogenic diet, which is a low carbohydrate, moderate protein, high
      fat approach to eating based on achieving a metabolic state called
      ketosis the majority of the time, which enables the body to become
      fat-adapted.
    
  
      Despite this, there are countless self-proclaimed "keto experts" (aka
      "keto police") who have lost weight using this approach and are on a
      mission to "educate" (i.e., lecture) everyone else on the "rules" about
      what they (or another keto "expert") are convinced is the right or wrong
      to follow a ketogenic diet. They often will argue passionately with other
      self-appointed "keto police" about whose rules are the "real" rules, which
      is ridiculous and, more important, extremely confusing for newbies to this
      way of eating who are trying to figure out whom to trust as a reliable
      source of information and advice.
    
      People often break out the high-level differences in ketogenic diet
      strategies into three groups. (Again, what each approach is called and how
      those labels are defined can vary, depending on who is doing the labeling
      and defining.) Most commonly, these three approaches are:
    
     "Clean Keto" aka Strict or Classic Keto
The "clean keto"
      approach focuses on high quality foods and optimal nutrition to support a
      healthy lifestyle.
      "Lazy Keto"
Lazy keto" usually refers to tracking
      carbohydrates and limiting them to 20-25 net carbs per day, without
      calculating/tracking macros or calories or eating specific types of foods.
      However, some people use this term to mean simply eating only
      keto-friendly foods—no calculating or tracking macros or calories.
      "Dirty Keto" aka IIFYM (If It Fits Your Macros)
"Dirty keto"
      is basically eating anything you want, as long as it fits within your
      daily carbs and calorie limits, protein target, and fat allowance. This
      approach focuses exclusively on weight loss, simplicity, and freedom of
      choice, without concern for nutrition or food quality.
  
    Choosing and Personalizing an Optimal Ketogenic Diet Strategy
  
  
    "Lazy keto" and "dirty keto" would have taken less work and were tempting
      options. Ultimately, however, I decided that the best strategy to help me
      kick my food addiction and lose the weight I needed to at a reasonable
      pace would take a mostly "clean keto" approach, but slightly less strict.
      I would focus primarily on cutting out all added sugars and refined
      carbohydrates, eating more whole foods, choosing grass-fed, organic,
      and/or non-GMO foods whenever possible, cutting way down on processed
      foods, and increasing my daily consumption of fresh, low-carbohydrate
      vegetables.
  
  
      I also decided to track my dietary fiber intake and supplement what I was
      able to get from food with a safe, gentle, osmotic laxative like
      MiraLAX, which an endoscopy nurse I met during my most recent colonoscopy visit
      told me she takes daily to stay "regular." Sometimes I buy an equivalent
      product from a different brand, such as
      Member's Mark ClearLAX
      or
      Amazon Basic Care ClearLax, that has the same active ingredient (polyethylene glycol 3350) but
      costs less per dose.
  
  
      With so much weight to lose, and a powerful and urgent motivation to do
      lose it and also lower my health risks, I decided that I didn't want to
      "cheat" when eating out, or for holidays or special occasions, or when I
      was under a lot of stress. To support that goal over a long period of
      time, I knew I would need to be proactive in preventing myself from
      feeling deprived, and decided to plan homemade or purchased keto-friendly
      treats, made with high-quality, nutritious, and some minimally and,
      occasionally, moderately processed ingredients, into my daily menus.
     
  
      When I chose to get started on keto, my short-term goal was to lose the
      weight I needed to in a way that I could sustain as long as necessary. I
      made a commitment to myself to do whatever it took, for as long as
      necessary, to achieve that goal. The strategy I chose to follow turned out
      to work extremely well for me, based on my individual needs, challenges,
      and goals. Someone else might do better with a significantly different
      approach.
  
  
      I encourage anyone who is seriously considering a ketogenic approach to
      losing weight to be brutally honest with themselves about how much, how,
      and for how long they are willing to change their eating habits, and then
      define their own personal guidelines/rules for their unique keto journey
      and modify them over time, if needed, as they discover what is and isn't
      working well for them.
     
   Consulting With a Doctor
  
    When the surgeon explained that my being both obese and postmenopausal
      were the most likely factors in my developing cervical polyps, she also
      told me that losing my excess body fat was one of the best ways to reduce
      my risk for developing either additional polyps or uterine cancer. During
      my pre-op follow-up visit, I told her that I had family members and
      friends who had lost weight successfully on keto, and that I was
      considering a "clean keto" diet, with a focus on making healthy,
      nutritionally sound choices and losing pounds at a moderate rate. She said
      it sounded like a reasonable approach and one worth trying, at least for a
      period of time. So, I was fortunate to have her support. Clearly, the
      risks of obesity appeared higher than any risks associated with such a
      restricted diet.
      
  
      Some medical or nutrition experts, however, are not in favor of a
      ketogenic diet for weight loss. Some also have misconceptions about keto,
      and many advise against it because it is so restrictive. But most support
      adopting a low-carb diet as a permanent lifestyle change. In fact, I don't
      know of any medical or nutrition professional who would not encourage
      patients to either cut out or restrict sugar, refined carbs and processed
      foods from their diet.
    
  
      It's also important to understand that keto is not always the best option,
      or even a good one, for every person. If you have a health condition,
      eating a very low carb diet might help, but it also could make it worse.
      So, it's best to have this conversation with your doctor, and to discuss
      what things should be monitored, how often, and whether you can monitor
      them yourself or will need a medical professional to run periodic
      tests.
  
  
      Note: If your doctor isn't aware of recent evidence-based studies and
      their findings regarding the potential health and medical benefits of a
      keto or LCHF approach to eating, you might consider sharing either of both
      of the following articles published in professional journals:
   
  
  
  
    Determining a Daily Calorie Target and Calculating Macros
  
  
    Like many other people, I found the not only the concept of macros but
      also how to calculate what mine should be extremely confusing.
  
  
    In the context of keto, "macros" is short for macronutrients:
      carbohydrates, protein, and fats. A person's macros refers to 1) the
      relative percentages of their target daily calories allocated to each of
      those macronutrients, and 2) the number of grams of net carbs, protein and
      fat that person can/should eat daily.
  
  
    One of the most common macronutrient ratios is 5/25/70, i.e., 5% of the
      person's daily calories come from "net carbs," 25% come from protein, and
      70% come from fat. To clarify a common misconception, this does NOT mean
      that for someone who chooses a 5/25/70 macro ratio, 70% of the amount of
      foods they eat on keto will consist of fats. Fats have 9 calories per
      gram, while proteins and carbohydrates each have only 4 calories per gram.
      So, allocating 70% of your daily calories to fat translates to a much
      smaller percentage in terms of weight (in grams).
  
  
    For daily tracking purposes, what matters is the daily number of grams
        of carbohydrate, protein and fat consumed, as well as your total
        calories.
  
   
    Net Carbs vs. Total Carbohydrate Grams
  
  
    Most people on keto base their macros calculations and tracking on net
      carbs, rather than total carbs. The reason is that dietary fiber,
      most sugar alcohols, as well as two of my favorite keto-friendly sweeteners, Allulose and
      pentose (e.g., BochaSweet brand sugar replacement) are not digested, so
      they aren't metabolized and used by the body for energy. This means they
      don't affect achieving or sustaining a metabolic state of
      ketosis (which is the core of a ketogenic diet
      approach).
  
  
    The most common way to calculate "net carbs" (and the formula I use)
      is:
  
  
    
      Total Carbohydrate - Fiber - (most) Sugar Alcohols - Allulose or
          pentose (e.g., BochaSweet) sweetener = Net Carbs
    
  
  
    Some people only subtract the dietary fiber. Others subtract only half
      the sugar alcohols and/or allulose or pentose (e.g., BochaSweet). Still
      others track total carbohydrate grams rather than calculating net carbs,
      which is much more restrictive (or is based on a higher percentage of
      carbohydrates).
      
   
    Keto Calculators / Macro Calculators
  
  
    When I was preparing to get started on keto, I had no idea how to choose
      a ratio for my macros, how many calories my body burned, how to decide on
      a calorie deficit percentage, or how to calculate how many grams of net
      carbs, protein and fat to eat each day. Fortunately, there were lots of
      articles and calculators to help.
     
  
   Ruled.me's ketogenic macro calculator
      is one of the most user-friendly of those I've tried. It's a good tool to
      help you figure out your daily calories target for weight loss and your
      starting macros, both the ratio (as a percent of calories) and, most
      importantly, the number of fat, carbohydrate and protein grams and
      calories you will consume daily on keto).
      
  
    Downloading Carb Manager or Another Good App to Track Calories, Macros,
      and Other Key Nutrients
  
  The thing I resisted most when starting my keto diet journey, and also
      the one I knew would be critical to my success, was committing to track
      every bite of food and every sip of drink that went into my mouth
      before I consumed it. Lots of people lose weight on keto without
      doing this. I can only share what was important to my weight loss success
      on this diet.
  
  
      There are a number of good apps for tracking your macros and calories.
      Some can also help you track other key nutrients. If you have high blood
      pressure, for example, it might be important for you to track your sodium
      intake. For me, tracking my fiber intake was a high priority, since many
      foods that are high in fiber are also high in carbohydrates and/or
      calories, which makes it hard to get enough dietary fiber daily for
      gastrointestinal health (and to avoid constipation!).
  
  
      My favorite tracking app, which I use every day, several times a day and
      recommend highly, is
      Carb Manager.
      The free version of this app has everything you need to track your macros,
      other nutrients of your choice, and calories. (I subsequently upgraded to
      the paid, premium version because it offers additional features I find
      helpful, but it's absolutely not necessary for keto.)
    
  
      Carb Manager has a huge library of foods (many of which were entered by
      other users, so I always check user-entered nutrition data against the
      manufacturer's nutrition data from the package label). You can make a
      custom entry for any food, either by manually entering the nutrition data
      from the package label or manufacturer's website, or by pointing your
      camera at the barcode on the packaging, if available, to see whether the
      data for that product can be imported into the app automatically (or has
      been entered already by someone else).
  
  
      Note: Carb Manager automatically calculates net carbs by subtracting fiber
      and sugar alcohol grams and allulose grams from the total carbohydrate grams. 
    
  
      One of the things I love about Carb Manager is that it has a macro
      calculator with adjustment sliders that can help you see in advance how
      changing your macro percentages would affect your daily fat, protein and
      carbohydrate grams, or how increasing or decreasing your desired calorie
      deficit percentage would affect the number of calories and net carb,
      protein and fat grams you can eat and the estimated length of time to
      reach your weight loss goal.
  
  
      Another great aspect of the Carb Manager app is its "Smart Macros" feature
      option that, if you turn it on, will automatically adjust your daily
      macros and calories over time, as your weight changes. The app also allows
      you to enter and track your body measurements, BMI, and other types of
      metrics to gauge your progress, a feature that I use and find extremely
      helpful, since the numbers on the scale can (and usually do) fluctuate
      regularly, often for no apparent reason, but a tape measure doesn't lie.
     
  
      This terrific app has many more features and capabilities than I can go
      into in this post, but the website has a very robust database of articles
      that explains each feature and how to use it. You can also take a brief
      tour of the Carb Manager app
      to get a sense of how it works and what the user experience is like before
      you download it.
   
  We're only halfway through the list of things I did to prepare myself for
      success before starting my keto diet journey. I'll cover the rest in my
      next post,
      Preparing to Succeed on the Keto Diet, Part Two.
  
  "The best way to predict your future is to create it." 〜 Abraham
        Lincoln
  
  
    
      Preparing to Succeed on the Keto Diet, Part One by Margaret Schindel
  
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  My First Year on The Keto Diet
  Preparing to Succeed on the Keto Diet, Part One
  Preparing to Succeed on the Keto Diet, Part Two
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  Low Carb Keto Chocolate Yogurt Granola Chip Pudding Recipe
  Good Dee’s Keto Cookie Low Carb Baking Mix Review
  Hamama Microgreens Growing Kit Review & Success Tips
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      Recipe
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My Personal Keto Testimonial
How I Stayed Committed to the Ketogenic Way of Eating
  
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