Showing posts with label resilience. Show all posts
Showing posts with label resilience. Show all posts

Sunday, November 1, 2026

When Life Seems Hard, Give This Original Song A Listen For A Little Empathy and Hope

 

When Life Seems Hard, Give This Song I Wrote A Listen For Little Empathy and Hope

When Life is Hard - Be The Eye In That Storm - "I Am The Hurricane" by Drageda Lyrics

I Am the Hurricane started with two words I happened to hear while watching television: "Hurricane and whirlwind". 

They were ordinary words in the context of what I was watching, but they caught my imagination. I reached for my notebook and wrote down the idea. 

I didn't have a complete story in mind. Still, I was intrigued by the possibility of using something as enormous and unpredictable as a hurricane to express thoughts about the human experience.

I eventually found myself looking at the subject from an unusual perspective. Instead of simply describing a storm, what if the person experiencing it became part of the storm itself? 

That question opened up an entirely different direction for the song.



A Different Way of Looking at the Storm

I chose a country music duet for this song because I wanted the lyrics to have a storytelling quality that applied to both men and women. 

The subject gave me plenty of room to build imagery, but I also wanted something beneath the surface that listeners could think about.

A hurricane is a fascinating subject because of its contradictions. It is destructive, unpredictable, and powerful, yet its eye presents an entirely different picture. That contrast made me think about how we sometimes present ourselves to the world compared with what is actually happening inside us.

We can appear composed while dealing with enormous internal pressure. We can carry on with our daily routines while thoughts and worries compete for our attention. Other people may see very little of what is going on beneath the surface.

I liked the idea of putting those contrasting experiences into a song without spelling everything out for the listener.

Who Is Really in Control?

An interesting tension runs through I Am the Hurricane. At first, the storm seems to have all the power. But as the story develops, the perspective changes. The person at the center of it begins to take a more active role.

That raised another question for me. How much control do we actually have over what happens in our lives?

We make decisions every day, sometimes without knowing how far-reaching their consequences might be. We can get caught up in situations that seemed harmless at first, only to discover that getting out is much harder than getting in.

But responsibility isn't always the answer. Not everything that happens is something we have caused or could have prevented. Life has a way of presenting challenges that nobody could have anticipated.

I wanted these different possibilities to coexist in the song. I didn't want to tell listeners what their own experiences should mean. I wanted to give them an image they could interpret through their own circumstances.

What Remains When Everything Changes?

One part of the story I find particularly important is what happens once the hurricane's intensity is over.

The end of a difficult experience doesn't automatically erase everything that came with it. There may be things to repair, decisions to reconsider, and memories that take longer to put behind us. The aftermath can be its own challenge.

I think this important part of the human experience often gets overlooked. We tend to concentrate on the moment when something goes wrong, but what happens afterward can tell us just as much about ourselves.

The person in this song has to face what remains. No one can pretend nothing happened. The damage has to be acknowledged before a new chapter can begin.

And perhaps that is where the most meaningful change takes place. Not necessarily during the most dramatic moment, but in the quieter period that follows.

A Song That Leaves Room for Interpretation

When I write a song, I don't always want to close the door on every possible interpretation. I enjoy the idea that two people can listen to the same lyrics and come away with entirely different thoughts.

Someone might connect this song to a period of personal upheaval. Someone else might see it as a statement about independence, accountability, or learning to trust their own judgment. Some listeners may even interpret the hurricane as an expression of the power they have discovered within themselves.

I find that range of possibilities interesting because the story becomes something more than the lyrics I originally set out to write. It becomes an opportunity for people to connect their own thoughts and experiences to the words.

I Am the Hurricane began with two words I heard on television. What emerged was a country song that let me explore power, uncertainty, responsibility, and the many ways people respond when life doesn't go according to plan.

Now that the song is out in the world, I'm curious about the stories other people will find in it.

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🎵 I write and produce story-driven lyrics. Vocals and music are digitally produced (I am not the singer). I digitally direct and arrange the video and recording.🎵 ©2026 DragedaPoemsLyrics (B.T.C) - All Rights Reserved - Original Lyrics Authored | Sound Recording: Produced With Digital Assistance (Vocals and Instrumental) 2026. Licensed digital composition (Commercial Rights Held). The visual artwork may include AI-assisted digital elements. SOCAN Member.




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Sunday, August 2, 2026

Can I Rise Above This? Can I Get Through It - A Song of Hope

Can I Rise Above This? Can I Get Through It - A Song of Hope

I've always enjoyed writing lyrics about life because life gives us an endless supply of stories to tell. Some are happy, some are heartbreaking, and some leave us asking questions we never thought we'd have to answer. 

I like exploring all of those different parts of the human experience because no two journeys are ever the same. Sometimes my songs are about family or relationships, sometimes they're about loss or hope, and sometimes they're simply about finding the strength to keep moving forward. 

Believe in My Wings came from one of those moments. It grew out of a question I think most of us have quietly asked ourselves at some point: When life gets difficult, will I be able to rise above it?

A Simple Thought That Grew Into a Story

The idea for this song began with a familiar metaphor about a bird trusting its wings instead of the branch beneath it. That image has appeared in many different forms over the years, yet its meaning has always remained powerful. Rather than writing about the saying itself, I wanted to explore what it represents on a deeper level. I wanted to imagine what that quiet confidence might look like if it became a story instead of a quotation.

Nature has a way of teaching us lessons without ever speaking a word. We can watch a bird settle onto a branch, and while we'll never truly know what it experiences, we can observe something remarkable. It doesn't appear consumed by the possibility that the branch might fail. It rests when it needs to rest, and when the time comes, it spreads its wings and flies. That simple picture has stayed with me because it reminds me how often fear encourages us to focus on what could collapse beneath us, while courage asks us to remember the strength we already possess.

Life gives each of us our own version of an unsteady branch. It might be the loss of someone we love, a health challenge, financial uncertainty, disappointment, loneliness, anxiety, or simply stepping into a future that feels completely unknown. None of us can predict every storm that will come our way. What we can choose is how we respond when those moments arrive.

Finding the Wings Within Ourselves

That became the heart of Believe in My Wings. For me, it's a song about the balance between fear and faith. There isn't one survival path that fits everyone; however, just the belief that we can overcome can help pave the road to getting there. Sometimes resilience grows through experience. Sometimes it comes from the encouragement of those who believe in us. Sometimes it appears so quietly that we don't even realize how strong we've become until we look back.

As I wrote the lyrics, I kept returning to the same thought. Every verse and every chorus seemed to ask the same question: Do I stay frozen by the storm, or do I trust that I have what it takes to move through it? That question isn't limited to one situation. It belongs to anyone facing uncertainty, whether the challenge is visible to the world or carried silently inside.

Perhaps that's why this song became so meaningful to me while I was writing it. It reminded me that our circumstances are only one part of the story. They may shake us, test us, or force us to rethink the path ahead, but they don't define what we're capable of becoming. 

The branch beneath us may change without warning, but our greatest source of strength has never been the branch itself. It has always been the wings we carry within us, waiting for the moment we decide to trust them.

Thank you for listening; I really appreciate it. 

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**I write and produce story-driven lyrics. ** ** Vocals and music are digitally produced (I am not the singer). I digitally direct and arrange the video and recording. ©2026 DragedaPoemsLyrics (B.T.C) - All Rights Reserved. Licensed Digital Composition (Commercial Rights Held). I wrote, created, and produced this piece on July 31st - August 1st 2026 - Member of SOCAN (Society of Composers, Authors and Music Publishers of Canada)**




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Sunday, February 1, 2026

That Point Where You Say, “I Can’t Do This the Same Way Anymore”

That Point Where You Say, “I Can’t Do This the Same Way Anymore”

I wrote The Tango of My Life around 2009. I wasn’t personally walking away from my life at the time, but I know I must have been stressed. You know those moments — when life feels loud and heavy, when everything piles up at once, and you suddenly think, I just want my life back. That’s where these lyrics came from.

When Life Gets Too Loud

This song is an empowerment song, but not in a dramatic or rebellious way. It’s for women who feel overwhelmed. Not women who are necessarily trying to walk out on their lives, but women who reach that quiet breaking point where they say, Damn… that’s it. I need to find me again.

That’s where the lyric Destination Me comes from. It came from that internal moment when you stop trying to hold everything together for everyone else and realize you need to turn back toward yourself. Destination Me isn’t about leaving your life — it’s about returning to yourself within it. It’s the decision to choose yourself without knowing exactly what the next step looks like.

This song isn’t about running away. It’s about claiming yourself again.



Writing Was Always My Exit - Sometimes Saving Me From Heading to the Front Door!

For me, the exit was never leaving — it was writing. Some people journal. I write lyrics. I’ve been doing that since 1968 (yah, I was 8 years old). When life gets tangled, when emotions don’t come in neat sentences, I put them into a song or a poem.

The Tango of My Life came from that place. It came from needing to breathe. From needing to hear my own voice again. From realizing that sometimes the only way through overwhelming life circumstances is to stop and put the truth somewhere safe.

This song isn’t about quitting on people, and it isn’t about abandoning your life. I’m not saying that some people don’t need to leave certain situations — sometimes they do — but this song holds more than one truth. It can be a momentary feeling of get me out of here, or a long-standing knowing that something has to change. It holds both.

The Middle Still Belongs to You

The song talks about how someone else may have gotten the beginning of your story, but you still get to decide the middle — and ultimately, the ending. That part belongs to you. Always.

This is a song for people reclaiming their lives. It’s also for someone who’s just having a bad day and thinking, I’ve had enough. I need to pause. I need to do this for me.

If that’s you — even just for today — this song is for you.

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Thursday, September 1, 2022

Limitless - Book Review

Limitless Book Cover

There would be gold medals and world records, and plenty of them, but that is not the Limitless in Mallory Weggemann's story.  No.

Becoming limitless was, and is, about diving in to discover what is on the other side of fear—the kind of fear that could have become more paralyzing than her T10 spinal injury.

Mallory's story could have ended when she was 18, but as we shall read, it did not. Some might say it began then... her story. I'm not seeing that.

What I did see in reading this memoir is that it is much more than a story of how Mallory Weggemann became a Paralympic champion. Amazing as that is, the heroic journey is in how a young woman chose to be more than what others imagined she could be after becoming a paraplegic.

I saw how it is possible, through choices, to be more than our circumstances—how one moves forward from pain, and devastation, and the grief caused by both.

Right alongside Mallory, I learned how we cannot ever live less of a life than we are capable of living. 

We all have disabilities. Some are just more visible than others. The thing is this: We must not let them define us. We are so much more than the artificial limits that contain us if we surrender to them.

I encourage you to experience Mallory Weggemann's victorious anthem, as sung on the pages of Limitless and on many championship podiums. It is my hope that those who do so will begin to envision a new limitless life for themselves. 






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