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Sunday, August 27, 2023
The Basics of Meditation and How It Has Helped Me - Is It Right For You?
Let me start by saying that I'm not a meditation guru!
Although I've read mountains on the subject, I didn't start actively practicing meditation in a committed way until March of this year (2023)
What I've learned about meditating is .... it takes practice, and consistency is key.
I've actually progressed into learning more and more about the power of the mind ... and I'm loving every second of it!
Are You Ready to Dive into the Wonderful World of Meditation?
I know – when you hear "meditation," it might conjure images of monks perched atop misty mountaintops, but trust me, it's not all incense and pretzel-like poses.
Meditation is like a soothing balm for your mind, and today, I'll explore how it basically works its magic and why it's becoming more popular than cat videos on the internet!
Life is a non-stop rollercoaster with ups, downs, and loop-de-loops that make your head spin faster than a ball rolling down a hill! That's where meditation struts in wearing a superhero cape.
At its core, meditation is like a mini-vacation for your brain – a chance to give your mind a breather from the constant barrage of thoughts, worries, and to-do lists that make your mental landscape look like Times Square on New Year's Eve.
Now, I get it – sitting still and quieting your thoughts might sound about as easy as juggling flamingos. I can tell you I still suck at it! But I keep going and am getting much better!
Meditation isn't about turning your brain into an empty void (I haven't been close to achieving that!). It's more like a gym session for your gray matter, training it to focus, de-stress, and especially kick out the negativity that overstays its welcome.
The Basics
Start by finding a cozy corner where you won't be interrupted (a.k.a. no one bursting in asking if you've seen their left sock) and get comfy.
You don't need fancy gear or a backdrop of crashing waves – just you and your willingness to give it a shot - and a guided meditation video if you need help getting started. I've featured the one below that I love and use daily.
As you settle in, you'll discover that meditation comes in various flavors, like a buffet of mindfulness.
Here are Two Popular Choices for Meditation:
Focused Attention Meditation
Imagine your mind as a hyperactive puppy – In this meditation, you gently bring your wandering pup back to its designated spot whenever it goes on a wild adventure. Usually, that spot is your breath. Breathe in, breathe out – it's like the rhythm of life that's always there, waiting to be your anchor in those endless sea of thoughts.
Loving-Kindness Meditation
I practice this one daily. I meditate for a half an hour in the morning, and it's turning out to be the best half-hour of my day.
This one's all about dishing out warm fuzzies, not unlike sharing virtual hugs with the universe.
You start by sending good vibes to yourself (because you're awesome, duh!), and then gradually extend those vibes to friends, family, and even that grumpy neighbor who scowls like it's their day job. It's like watering the garden of your heart and watching kindness bloom.
"My personal meditation involves seeing each of my children, with their families, in their homes, happy, healthy, and financially at peace. I visualize hubby and I visting each of them. The photos in my mind about my kids and my own life have become so real to me, that now I look forward to meditating so I can visit that wonderful manifestation and play with my future grandchildren"
How Meditation Has Helped Me:
- I sucked at it at first, but with persistence, I'm now finding it to be my favorite time of the day. I look forward to it!
- It's something that is completely mine - it doesn't involve anyone else, I own it and control it
- With visualization, I get to see each of my family members where I want them to be in their lives and it feels real while meditating!
- Since it involves deeper breathing, it's a good form of exercise for my lungs
- I find I'm in a calmer state, able to release things much more effectively
- I remember to approach tough life issues with love
- I'm learning to keep my mouth shut a little better (lol)
- The future feels bright when I visualize what I see as real outcomes for my family and myself
- I feel differently inside - in a good way - I can't put that into words?
- I've learned to control my thoughts, and negative thoughts that try to creep into my head pretty much get their butts kicked to the door now! They do not control me.
My Personal Favorite Guided Meditation Video:
I use this video daily, along with a few others, from time to time. However, so far, this one ranks top for me. The meditation guide has a lovely soothing voice, and I love the way she uses a train ride to get into the life you want.
(Here's the video on YouTube if you're having problems seeing the video below.)
Some of the Basic Benefits:
Now, let's talk benefits – because who doesn't want a slice of mental and emotional awesome sauce?
Scientifically speaking, meditation has been found to reduce stress, boost focus and creativity (hello, productivity guru), and even improve your relationship with Mr. Sandman for those sweet ZZZs.
Think of meditation as a gym for your mind, minus the sweaty workout gear. With regular practice – and trust me, consistency is key here – you'll start noticing changes.
Maybe you'll handle that traffic jam without turning into the Hulk. Perhaps you'll catch yourself before a thought spiral drags you down. And just maybe, you'll find a sense of calm that feels like a warm cup of cocoa for your soul.
So, there you have it, intrepid explorers of the inner world – meditation demystified and made as approachable as a lazy Sunday morning. Remember, it's not about doing it "perfectly" but showing up and giving your mind a little love. Whether you're a zen master in training or a meditation newbie, the path to a more centered you are just a few deep breaths away.
"NOTE: A key insight I've gained about visualization is the importance of truly immersing yourself in the experience. It's not just about thinking of what you're manifesting; it's about embracing it as if it's already woven into the fabric of your reality. It's like stepping into the vibrant new world you've meticulously crafted and feeling its existence all around you"
Once my meditation session is over, I add a four-minute "prayer for others. The day is ALWAYS better when I meditate.
A Good Book and Place to Start
I'll leave you with a quote by the best-selling author Dr. Joe Dispenza, from his book "Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself: How to Lose Your Mind and Create a New One"
“Meditating is also a means for you to move beyond your analytical mind so that you can access your subconscious mind. That’s crucial, since the subconscious is where all your bad habits and behaviors that you want to change reside.”
Sunday, December 11, 2022
Why I Feel Bad Today - A Workbook for Teens and Adults
I recently published the opposing workbook, called "Why I Feel Good Today."
This workbook, "Why I Feel Bad Today," is designed to help teens or adults isolate their daily experiences and triggers contributing to a less-than-positive day.
Why Do We Need Workbooks
The stresses of this interconnected world can be overwhelming, and a workbook to write down and track our moods, triggers, and good and bad experiences help us to sort out life's continuing fog.
Now more than ever, people can feel submerged in an endless vortex of one problem after another.
This prompt workbook was written with love and is meant to be a fun self-care tool to aid in sorting out the good, the bad, and the ugly.
With This Workbook, You'll Track What Made You Feel Bad During a Particular Month
The workbook is not meant to be a negative book!
On the contrary, this workbook is designed to help you figure out repeating trends that make you feel bad, so you know more clearly where to make changes.
Even making a small change daily can make a difference in our lives.
However, how can we change toward a happier life unless we actively track our negative triggers.
What This Workbook Includes:
13 Color Coded Months with Four Monthly Prompt Pages:
- Each month is color coded
- Each month includes a positive quote
- You'll have a spot to record daily quick notes
- There's a place to track specifics about the month, with prompt questions
- Each month has a place to expand on what has affected your life
- The monthly summary page includes four prompt questions to help you better analyze your month
- Included is a 365-day chart to color in your mood daily. When the year is up, look at which mood color is most prominent to determine, with just a glance, what your overall mood was for that year.
Available on Amazon |
Sunday, October 16, 2022
Why I Feel Good Today - A Workbook for Teens and Adults
- Daily Feel Good Quick Notes
- Monthly Specific Prompt Questions
- A Page to Expand Upon Why You Feel Good in Your Own Notes
- A Monthly Happy Summary with More Prompt Questions
- A Motivational Quote for Each Month
Available on Amazon |
Sunday, October 2, 2022
I Need Help Thinking Positive - Review of A New Mood Tracking Book
This thirty-one-day Workbook lets you track negative energy and analyze patterns requiring attention, change, or improvement.
Even Mostly Positive Thinking People Will Benefit From This Mood Tracking Book
Each day's worksheets give you a chance to break down your thoughts.
The Quick Clipboard Chart Page |
In My Own Words - A Place For Personal Notes |
Positive Solution Analysis |
Available on Amazon |
Book Tip! You don't have to track 31 days in a row - simply use the book on your negative days. If it takes several months or a year to track those negative thinking days, that's perfectly fine!
Sunday, March 22, 2020
15 Additional Distracting and Calming Things to Do During Quarantine
15 Distracting Things to Do During Quarantine |
Last week I wrote about ten calming and distracting things you can do during these crazy quarantine times.
This week I'll add another 15 suggestions for you.
1. 5000 Piece Puzzles
Ok, maybe just 1000 pieces will do. Family members of mine have tackled this one already.
2. Read the Hilarious Twitter Hashtag #QuarantineLife
The top tweets will crack you up. My mom and I were in stitches reading them!
3. Crossword Puzzles
Do you love to do crossword puzzles? If so, get out the book.
4. Redecorate a Room
That may involve trips to the store, so you may be restricted on what you can actually do. But hey, if you can even tackle one or two aspects of a redecorating project, good for you! Here's a brief helpful video on how to mix patterns in home decor:
5. Reorganize Your Cupboards and Closets
To some people, this is therapy, to others torture. Either way, get it done! If you've been putting off dealing with the disaster behind your closet door, now is a good time to get 'er done.
6. Learn a New Language
There are several common APPs you can use to learn a new language. Here are a few you can check out: Babbel, DuoLingo, and MemRise.
7. Learn to Play Piano Via an App
Yes, there's an APP for that. Here are two Apple Apps you can check out - Flowkey and Note Quest.
8. Assemble All Those Poems You've Written, And Self-Publish Your Book
Do you have a box of personally written poems that need a permanent place? How about writing that poetry book you've always wanted to write. I crossed that one off my bucket list last year and self-published my first book. I've since published five more and am working on my sixth. Here are some things I've learned along the way that may help you get started.
9. Crafts - DIY Crafting
I know, this is obvious. Knit, sew, or crochet those virus blobs. If you have friends who also enjoy crafts, turn it into a game. Tackle the same project and whoever finishes first gets a prize - maybe a book.
10. Learn Calligraphy
Family members of mine did this one the other day. You can get multiple tutorials on YouTube.
11. Coloring Books are Fun, Even for Adults
This is one I plan to do to relax. Coloring can be utterly satisfying. Color with the kids or you can always buy grown-up coloring books online.
12. Turn Your Life Into a Reality Show
If you're bold, go for it. Vlog your life and upload your daily routine to your social media audience. If you don't have an audience, you could end up with one fast lol - be careful!
13. Take Cooking Lessons Online
Head over to Youtube and start watching all those addictive cooking videos! Have you always wanted to learn French Cooking? Now's your chance.
14. Assemble and Sort All Your Photos on Your Laptop & Phone
Sort all your photos and store them on a USB or in the cloud. Or create a family wall of photos - finally frame and display all those family favorites.
15. Handwrite Letters to Your Family
Handwrite a letter. Don't type it. Handwrite it and mail it to mom, dad, grandma, grandpa, or the kids. Include the kid's drawings or photos as well. Yes, you can do this online, but there's something very special about getting something like this in the mail.
Sunday, March 15, 2020
10 Calming and Distracting Things to Do
Calming and Distracting Things to Do |
When you've had your fill of news, and consumed as much info as you need for a day or so, here are some things you can do to take your mind off the world.
1. Listen to Music
Yes, I know, that's predictable! You've heard it a million times. The principle of Occams Razor applies right now (the simplest solution is often the best or right one - paraphrasing). With that in mind, turn off the TV for a while or forever, and pick a few songs that speak to you.
Here, let me recommend a fantastic song for country music fans; have you listened to Blake Shelton and Gwen Stefani's song "Nobody But You?" If not, take a minute. It's a perfect song to cuddle up to or think about the one you love, and what's most important in life.
Lyrics
"Don't have to leave this town to see the world
'Cause it's something that I gotta do
I don't wanna look back in thirty years
And wonder who you're married to
Wanna say it now, wanna make it clear
For only you and God to hear
When you love someone, they say you set 'em free
But that ain't gonna work for me"
It's currently my favorite country music song - hope you enjoy it.
2. Watch Inspirational Videos
This is a little self-serving; here's one of my most recent video-poems. Written about a month ago, it's about finding clarity and calm in life.
This year I've vowed to work on body, mind, and spirit. The video speaks to the spirit side of life. I call it Living in Light. If you need a little calm, mixed with a teaspoon of hope and faith, this one is for you.
3. Cooking - Do You Love to Cook?
If you love to cook there are a ton of recipes from our writers here on ReviewThisReviews. Be sure to check out the recipe section. You can find it here.
4. Puzzles and Games
You've already thought of this right? Board games, riddle games, and puzzles. If you're not in the mood to play family games, distract yourself with riddles. Yep, I happen to write them. Here's one, can you solve it?
Find more at StumpedRiddles.com |
Oh, that sounds really dumb, doesn't it? It's not. Turn up the radio and dance. The exercise is good for us physically and mentally. Who cares how silly we look. Blast your favorite music and go for it.
6. Exercise
If your health permits and you have exercise equipment, use it. If not, there are plenty of yoga and exercise videos on Youtube and TV you can follow. I like this basic exercise video for Arms. This lady features short easy-to-do videos.
7. Draw, Paint or Create
Now is a good time to tackle that book you've always wanted to write. If books aren't your thing, sketch or paint. Stepping back in time, it's said that the plague may have influenced Shakespeare to create his best works. You can read about it here.
If you've wanted to write a book, but aren't sure where to start, I've written several articles with tips from my own personal experience of writing my first books. You can find them here:
8. Binge Watch TV
Oh my, that's too much couch time, but if you can't help yourself, here are some comical tips on what not to do when you binge-watch.
9. Read a Book
If you're looking for a book to read, check out the book reviews by the Contributors on this site. There are some serious book-readers here! You can scroll through the reviews by starting here.
10. Express Your Love to Family and Friends
Don't hold back. Say it out loud or by text or phone if you have to, but say it. Say it over and over, and even say it for others to hear. Spread love - let your voice be heard.
My own Mind, Body and Spirit tips for 2020 are reviewed here.
Sunday, March 4, 2018
5 Ways to Bring Happiness and Positive Energy Into a Room - Harness the Good
by Funkthishouse |
Since we can't control gravity or other people, controlling ourselves and the environment we live in can give us a sense of taking back our mind and heart.
"We are shaped by our thoughts, we become what we think. When the mind is pure, joy follows like a shadow that never leaves" BuddhaThe Emotion Code by Dr. Bradly Nelson talks about how emotions are so powerful they can literally define and determine the experiences we bring into our life. We need to take the power of the energy in our home and enhance it for good.
Lets review 5 Ways to Bring Happiness and Positive Energy into a Room:
1. Open the Window or Clear the Air in the Room
An air exchange can do wonders for a space. Even in the dead of winter go ahead and open the window for a few minutes. Fresh air reinvigorates a space and there's a sense a power in knowing you can change the energy of a room with something you can't see. If opening a window isn't an option, add a Salt Lamp. Just like the goodness of negative ions that fill the air after a thunderstorm, a salt lamp also emits negative ions. However, the radius of negative ions from a salt lamp is quite small, generally surrounding the area immediately around the lamp itself. That's a good reason to have a couple of salt lamps positioned throughout a room - especially a windowless room.
2. Remove Items that Have Bad Memories
If there are people or items in your life that have negative energy or thoughts attached to them, be brave, and remove photos or items relating to them from your space. You're not erasing what has happened, you're simply taking back the things you CAN control; your space and your mood. If there are linens, pillows or furnishings that have bad memories attached to them, replace them. Add a little humor to the situation and have a small cleansing ceremony with Sage as you box the items up. Pass them onto the Good Will. If getting rid of your furniture isn't in the cards, try slip-covers for couches and taking on a DIY re-do project for the dressers and tables.
3. Add Plants and Flowers
Plants freshen and clean the air in a room. For more detail on which plants do what, take a look at this list of room cleaning plants. Think in terms of volume. Add several plants in a room; floor plants, plants in plant wall holders, plants on end or corner tables, or multiple plants displayed in plant stands.
4. Add Music to the Room
Even if you have a TV in the room to play music from the Music Channel, there's something special about listening to music the old fashioned way; from a stereo or radio. Leave the TV off - for less magnetic energy being emitted. The benefits to music are abundant; it promotes good health, helps you sleep, reduces depression and more. Keep a radio running in the kitchen with music playing all the time. We do this in our house. In fact, I can hear the music softly playing while typing this. It's incredibly uplifting to walk into a quiet kitchen that has the life of music filling the background. It brings in positive energy especially when it's a bit lonesome. Best of all, song lyrics tell a story, and provide a lovely calming, creative visual while preparing meals or tidying up.
5. Use the Power of Color to Enhance the Emotions You Want to Bring into a Space
Every color has a group of traits and emotions attributed to them. Understanding these traits can help you harness the mood you want your room to evoke. Here's a summary of a few of the traits associated with some of the most basic colors.
- Orange: Boosts your energy, is fun, and adds excitement
- Blue: Calming, relaxing, trusting, professional
- Yellow: Moderate amounts - joy, happiness, encourages thinking/learning
- Purple: Luxury, spirituality, creativity, royalty
- Red: Energetic, Love - but peace and tranquility in a bedroom
- Green: Nature, well being, refreshing, clean, simple, calming and growth
Monday, August 10, 2015
Adult Coloring Books are all the Rage
It seems, we have found out, that running the rat race is sometimes driving us to a place where we all need just a little bit of quiet and peace.
Adult coloring books are much like the ones we had as children, but the designs are a little more intricate and require a steady hand.
That and a little patience, along with a good supply of coloring pencils or markers will make you an artist of exceptional beauty, brought to life by your own hands.
The Secret Garden is one of these Coloring Books. I have seen it entirely from cover to cover and they are beautiful in design! You are free to use your own imagination, pick your favorite predominant colors and complete them to your own tastes.
The author of these pictures was trying to sell 200,000 copies, so that she would have enough to start another project. What she did not know is that she would sell over a million copies of her beautiful book.
So, book number two became a reality as well.....
The Enchanted Forest is as beautiful as the Secret Garden and will keep any adult occupied for hours. The best part of this whole coloring book craze is that when you need some peace and quiet, something that will soothe your overworked nerves, you just need to grab your book and turn to the page you last worked on (or start a different one), and within the hour, you will find yourself unwinding and relaxing like never before.
In our busy world, these easy, beautiful and inexpensive books, will save you from many hours of therapy. We have forgotten how to relax and enjoy the simple pleasures in life. These Coloring Books are just that, a simple pleasure.
Add some wonderful markers, crayons or pencil crayons and you are all set to go. I dare you to try it, and I bet you will love it.
Once you have finished one of the pictures, come on back and let us see.......share and let us admire your handiwork or send me the link and I'll post it.....
Just take a look at one of the beautiful designs in the Enchanted Forest...
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