Nearly 25 years ago, I wrote a poem/song lyrics called Hope is a Place. Back then, my days were filled with the joyful chaos of raising a family—work, school runs, endless to-do lists.
Life was busy, but beneath it all, I remember feeling this steady heartbeat of hope. I wrote that poem as a quiet reminder to myself: to keep giving, to keep believing, and to stay open to both the good and the hard parts of life.
Hope, in that season, was my way of giving back—to my children, my community, and to the woman I was becoming.
Does Hope Change With Age?
At 65, I realize that time hasn't changed the essence of hope —it has simply deepened.
Back then, I saw hope as a light that helped me face each day with purpose. Today, I see it as a gift we give ourselves in the moment we’re living.
Hope doesn’t just look forward—it wraps the present in gentleness, like a beautifully tied bow around the life we already have. It helps us stay here, now, while still allowing room for what might be waiting just beyond our view.
Is Hope About Getting What We Want?
Some people say that hope only leads to disappointment—that to hope is to risk being let down. I understand that view, because I’ve felt it too.
But I don’t believe hope’s purpose is to deliver a specific outcome. Hope, to me, isn’t a wish list or a guarantee—it’s the quiet belief that possibilities exist, even when we can’t see them yet.
When something we’ve hoped for doesn’t happen, it doesn’t mean hope has failed us. Sometimes it’s simply leading us somewhere new—to a fresh start, a different direction, or a door we didn’t even know was waiting.
What Does Hope Really Give Us?
Hope gives me energy.
It’s a current that runs through me and out into the world, hopefully touching others without my even realizing it.
I like to believe that when we hold onto hope, we emit something good—something bright. It doesn’t mean we’re always cheerful or unshaken; it just means that somewhere inside, we’re open. We’re willing to believe that light still exists, even when the day feels dark.
Hope, in that way, becomes both a gift to ourselves and to others—a reminder that unseen things can be the most powerful.
Hope and Love Coexist as Life’s Anchors
If love is the force that connects us, hope is the force that steadies us.
It’s the quiet anchor that keeps us grounded in the present while still allowing us to drift toward tomorrow.
Hope doesn’t erase the hard moments, but it helps us move through them. And when life feels joyful, it reminds us to savor those moments too—to recognize that hope isn’t only for when we’re lost. It’s also for when we’ve found something worth holding.
What Is Your Word? Mine is Hope.
There’s a belief that everyone should have a word—a word that somehow captures who they are at their core, or what they stand for.
A dear friend and I once talked about this, and ever since, my word has been hope. That same friend gave me a necklace engraved with the word, and I wear it every day as a gentle reminder.
Along with love, hope is the anchor that keeps me present, connected, and moving forward. It’s invisible, yet tangible. Elusive, yet powerful. And to me, hope truly is a place.
This article was inspired by my poem “Hope is a Place,” written nearly 25 years ago and included in my poetry book, where available, on Amazon.
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I've Been Obsessed with Time Since I Was 8 Years Old
That sounds like a strange thing for an eight-year-old to say, doesn't it? But I remember it vividly.
I was eight, my brother was six, and we were trying to let Mom sleep in.
Our mornings were often filled with old Shirley Temple movies and wild imaginations. We'd turn a blanket into a "boat," grab canned goods from the kitchen, and pretend we were setting sail — sometimes to escape danger, sometimes just to explore.
One morning, standing in the hallway, I asked my brother a question that still echoes in my soul today:
"Why are you you and me me?"
He probably shrugged it off, eager to get back to our blanket boat, but that question never left me. Even at eight, I felt the weight of my own existence — this sense that "I" was something separate and conscious, and that somehow Time and existence were connected in ways I couldn't understand yet.
When Time Became a Fascination
As I got older, that awareness of Time grew into an obsession.
Not the kind that makes you late for appointments or stare at clocks (though I've done both), but the kind that makes you wonder: what exactly is Time?
I became drawn to time travel movies andstories that twisted the rules of reality and blurred the boundaries between "then" and "now." They weren't just entertainment for me — they were portals into possibilities. I didn't separate the spiritual from the scientific; I was open to it all.
Can we move through Time? Are we souls who return again and again? Or are we simply fleeting passengers on a one-way track? I never dismissed any of it — God, aliens, reincarnation, time loops, you name it — because every theory felt like it was reaching for the same truth.
Now, as an adult, I believe our souls are timeless. The "me" I felt at eight still feels like the "me" I am today — wiser maybe, but still that same spark.
The answer to "why are you you and me me?" has softened over the years into something beautifully simple: love and kindness are the only measures, Time is the vehicle. You are always you, and I am always me.
I've come to understand (for me) that we are always our spirit, always our consciousness, always us. It's never been a crap shoot, which is one of the things I felt at 8 years old, that I no longer feel at 65 years old.
No matter who we are, where we came from, or where we go, it's love and kindness that anchor us. When we step away from that, Time loses its purpose, the vehicle stalls — it just becomes noise in the background instead of a rhythm in our heart. The rhythm of growth NEEDS love, it NEEDS kindness. The rest IS noise that only slows our learning down.
Writing My First Poem About Time When I Was a Teenager in the 1970s
By seventeen, I could already feel Time slipping by. I remember taking the train from my small town to Toronto to visit a friend — about a three-and-a-half-hour ride. Somewhere along the way, watching the world blur past the window, I wrote a poem about Time.
It was the 1970s, and I was a teenager — but even then, I felt the strange ache of hours passing too quickly (crazy, I know! I was so young yet felt the ticking clock).
Later, in my thirties, I rewrote that same poem, layering it with the wisdom and wear that life had given me.
In my fifties, I revised it once more, adding even more perspective, as if each decade had given me a new lens through which to see Time.
If I am gifted more Time, will I revise the poem again? I think about that.
Below is that poem, one that has traveled with me for nearly 50 years now — a kind of map of how Time has shaped me.
TIME'S GIFT
Time heals Promising closure Shrinking scars like popping bubbles As it prepares our gift Time's benefaction is objectivity to our past Building an awareness of yesteryears Defogging our vision for truth Generously donating our package of clarity
Time lies only to those who misuse its precious moments, Lines entrenched on our face can devour redeemable blemishes By gracefully accepting our package healing eyes can widen to witness dissipating mist
Time promises blessed tomorrows Let us put away our spinning wheels plunge forward with our lesson accept our bequest from Time, and yes! We will have morning smiles
It's fair to say I've seen nearly every time-travel movie ever made.
I seek them out, not for the science fiction, but for the spiritual resonance they carry. There's something about them that feels true on multiple levels.
Many philosophers suggest that Time isn't linear — that everything, past and future, is happening all at once. Whether that's scientifically provable or not doesn't matter much to me. What matters is that it feels right.
The only real Time that exists is this moment — the present.
When I first read that idea, I couldn't quite grasp it.
"What do you mean, only the present exists?" I'd think. We have memories, plans, regrets, and hopes — of course, Time is more than just the present.
But as I've aged, I've come to understand what it really means:
You can reflect on yesterday and plan for tomorrow, but you can only live in the present.
This very moment — writing these words, breathing this breath — is Time. Everything else is memory or imagination.
It took years, but I FINALLY understand that at my core.
When Time Stands Still
Living in the present doesn't mean ignoring the future or the past. It just means that you live fully in the moment you're in — even when that moment hurts.
Life has its seasons of chaos and heartbreak, but even in those times, I've learned that joy can still exist. It might be quieter, more fragile, but it's still there — tucked into laughter through tears, or a single kind gesture that reminds you that love never disappears, it just changes form.
That's where Time stands still — in those sacred, love-filled moments.
Closing Thoughts: What Time Has Taught Me
If Time has taught me anything, it's that every second matters — not because we're racing against a clock, but because each moment is a chance to choose love over fear, kindness over indifference, and presence over distraction.
Maybe that's why I've always been obsessed with Time.
Because somewhere deep down, I knew it wasn't about minutes or hours —
It was about being alive in them.
Blessings, Love Barbara xxoo
P.S. I've written a flash fiction story about the concept of life, lessons learned, and ultimately Time and what matters available here on ReviewThisReviews - you can find it here.
A Video I Created at 60 Years Old, Sitting Quietly With My Mother
My mom passed away in 2021, and she will forever be a part of my every breath, in this life and beyond. This video remains my current reflection on what Time means to me, now that I am 65 years old.
If I were to revise my above poem, "Time’s Gift" again, I’d add the message from this video: that life’s lessons matter, yes, but it’s the love we share and receive that truly sustains us and moves us forward.
Dedication – With heartfelt appreciation to my fellow writers at ReviewThisReviews.com, and especially to Sylvestermouse and Margaret, whose friendship and creativity continue to light the way. Time has been my friend because you are in my life.
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Hazel, Griselda, and Moondrop weren't your average witches. For one thing, their brooms had more duct tape than straw, and their black cat had defected to the neighbor's porch two Halloweens ago.
But this year, the sisters had big plans.
"We're taking over the town!" Hazel declared, waving her wand like she was conducting an orchestra. "Every man, woman, and child will croak as frogs by midnight!"
Unfortunately, Hazel had a small problem: she never read instructions all the way through. So, when she mispronounced the spell, instead of turning the townsfolk into frogs… she turned herself into one. With a pop and a puff, there sat Hazel, slimy and green, blinking her bulgy eyes.
Griselda laughed so hard she fell into the cauldron.
But before she could crawl out, poof! she too was a frog. Then Moondrop, in her attempt to "fix it immediately," only managed to hop right into the same trap.
Three frog-witches croaked in chorus under the moonlight, glaring at each other from the pumpkin patch, so much for world domination.
From Frogs to Goats - Total Incompetence!
As frogs, the sisters had limited spell-casting power, but Griselda—always the bossy one—was determined to fix their slimy situation. She hopped onto a toadstool, puffed up her throat, and croaked out a forgotten rhyme she half-remembered from Witch School:
"Eye of newt, tail of bat,
Get us out of this, and fast at that!"
The air shimmered, the ground shook, and then—BOOM! Gone were the frogs. Success? Well… not exactly.
Instead of returning to their witchy selves, they were now goats. Yes, goats. With witch hats perched between their horns and long, crooked noses somehow still attached, they stood bleating on the side of a windswept mountain.
Hazel tried to bleat with authority: "We're… still… powerful!" But the only thing that came out was "Maaaahhh!"
The goats slipped and slid on the rocks, their robes caught on branches, and one of them even started nibbling on her own spellbook. Scary? Not so much. Spectacularly ridiculous? Absolutely.
Bikini Witches in Bali - It All Went South!
By now, Moondrop was done. "We are never going to make it to town at this rate," she bleated, stomping a hoof.
Determined, she concentrated harder than ever before, her goat-eyes glowing green. "This time, no mistakes!"
The mountain swirled. The goats spun like tops. A burst of fireworks filled the sky. And then—swoosh!—the sisters found themselves lying on soft sand with the sun beating down.
WHAT!
They were back in their witchy bodies! But there was one small catch: instead of flowing black gowns, they were now squeezed into neon bikinis!
Hazel's funky swimsuit sagged in all the wrong places, Griselda's hat flopped over her sunglasses, and Moondrop's green skin was already turning a suspicious shade of sunburn.
Each held a martini glass that didn't even have a paper umbrella, staring in disbelief at the turquoise waves rolling in.
Hazel finally slumped back in her lounge chair. “Maybe… just maybe… Halloween isn't our thing."
Griselda raised her glass. "To ghosts. Let them handle the haunting! We suck."
The three witches clinked their witchy potions together in defeat.
And so, on that Halloween night, while the rest of the world celebrated spooks and scares, three witches in bikinis sat in Bali, drinking martinis, and admitting once and for all—they were better at beach vacations than at being scary.
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What Are Redoxon Vitamin C Effervescent Tablets and Why I Take Them
Each Redoxon tablet has 1,000 mg of vitamin C, which is the equivalent of eating 10 oranges. I’m definitely not eating 10 oranges a day, so this is a simple way to give my immune system a boost. Especially with fall and winter colds going around, I feel better knowing I’m adding that extra protection. Sometimes I take it every day, sometimes every other day, but either way I feel like I’m covered.
Why I Like Effervescent Tablets
I don’t mind swallowing vitamins, but I know many people dislike taking them. That’s why this form works so well.
Simply drop the tablet in a glass of water, let it dissolve, and then drink. For me, it’s easy and actually enjoyable—it feels more like a drink than a vitamin.
The Taste is Amazing!
What hooked me most was the taste. It’s very orangey, refreshing, and bright. I usually dissolve mine in a regular cup of water (about 250 ml). I like the stronger, punchier flavor that way.
Some people in my family prefer to add it to a water bottle, which dilutes it more. Both ways work, but I love the bold orange flavor in just a cup.
The Fizz Factor
I also love the effervescence. I’m a big fan of carbonated water, and while I don’t know if this technically counts as carbonation, it definitely has a fizz to it. That fizz gives it an extra kick, making it even more enjoyable to drink.
Making It More Interesting
Every once in a while, I’ll play around with it. I’ll throw in some ice cubes or even add a squirt of lemon juice. It turns into a little drink I look forward to, instead of just “taking my vitamins.”
Other Effervescent Vitamin Choices Available
Redoxon also makes other effervescent vitamins, like multivitamins, so you can browse through different choices. For now, I’m sticking with just the vitamin C, since I already take other supplements. But if you’re curious, there are lots of options. Out of the brands I’ve tried, Redoxon—R-E-D-O-X-O-N—is definitely my favorite.
How I First Tried Redoxon Vitamin C Effervescent Tablets
I actually discovered Redoxon when we were overseas visiting family. They had some on hand, and I thought I might be catching a cold. I tried one tablet, and I was instantly impressed with both the taste and the fizz.
When we arrived back in Canada, I ordered two bottles from Amazon right away. Each one has 15 tablets, so with two, I have 30, which is plenty.
Final Thoughts
For me, Redoxon isn’t just about vitamin C. It’s about enjoying something tasty and fizzy while also doing something good for my health.
If you like orange flavor and want an easy way to get a considerable boost of vitamin C, I’d definitely recommend giving it a try.
Disclaimer
I’m not a doctor, and this post is just me sharing my own experience with Redoxon. Everyone’s health needs are different, so be sure to talk with your doctor before adding or changing vitamins in your routine.
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When it comes to wound care, I've always kept it simple. Living in Canada, Polysporin has been my go-to for as long as I can remember—it's the first thing I reach for when there's a cut, scrape, or any other wound that needs healing.
I Used to Use Regular Honey… Until I Learned Why I Shouldn't!
A few years ago, I used to apply regular organic honey to minor wounds, thinking it was a natural and soothing solution. And truthfully, I never had any bad reactions to it. But earlier this year, I happened to do some reading—and wow, I had no idea that using non-medical honey on open wounds wasn't actually recommended.
Apparently, regular honey (even organic) can contain bacteria or spores that haven't been filtered out, which makes it unsafe for wound use.
That discovery led me down a research rabbit hole, and it was there that I first came across medical-grade honey, specifically Manuka Honeyfrom New Zealand.
Discovering ActiVon
That research led me to a product called ActiVon Medical Grade Manuka Honey, and I decided to give it a try.
Right away, I could tell this wasn't anything like using regular honey. ActiVon is sterilized, filtered, and formulated specifically for wound care. It's a 100% medical-grade Manuka honey gel—nothing added, no preservatives—and it's safe to apply directly to open skin.
It's designed to create a moist healing environment, which is actually better for wound recovery. The gel has a thick but smooth consistency, making it easy to apply, and it stays in place nicely.
How I Personally Use It
This year, I had a wound that was healing well, but I still wanted to support the healing process and make sure everything stayed clean and healthy. I used a small amount of ActiVon directly on the area, and in my typical Canadian style, I paired it with a dab of Polysporin—that's just my habit.
Let me be clear: I'm not a doctor, and I don't recommend mixing products like that. I'm sharing what I personally did, and it worked well for me.
What Makes ActiVon Stand Out
Here's what impressed me most about using ActiVon:
It keeps the wound moist, which helps promote faster healing and reduces the likelihood of scarring.
It creates an osmotic effect, which gently pulls out harmful tissue and debris from the wound bed.
It reduces the risk of infection while eliminating odors—without masking anything artificially.
It felt gentle, and even though I was nervous to apply honey to a healing wound, it felt soothing. It's a bit sticky, of course, but that's to be expected.
It's 100% natural, and the fact that it doesn't absorb into the bloodstream makes it a safe option.
It contains no added preservatives, only pure, medical-grade Manuka honey that has been filtered and sterilized.
The packaging makes it easy to use, and I love that the tube size is perfect—not too big, not too small.
A New Favorite in My First Aid Kit
This has now become a product I keep on hand. I've even purchased a second tube—just to have in case I need it again. It gave me peace of mind knowing I was using something natural yet medically designed for healing.
Would I Recommend It?
Absolutely—but with the usual disclaimer: talk to your doctor first.
I'm someone who tends to dive in and try things on my own (sometimes before asking anyone!), but not everyone should do that.
If you're considering trying ActiVon for wound care, it's best to get professional guidance, especially if you're dealing with chronic or serious wounds.
Disclaimer:
I'm not a medical professional. I'm sharing my personal experience using ActiVon. Always consult your healthcare provider before using any new product on wounds, especially if you have existing health conditions, Bee allergies, other allergies, or are treating serious injuries.
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A Very Affordable Travel Fanny Pack – Check This Out!
When we planned our recent trip, I knew I needed a compact crossbody bag that could still hold all the essentials we tend to carry, and would also need direct access to on the airplane.
After spending a considerable amount of time researching, comparing styles, and reading reviews, I finally settled on a fanny pack that ticked all the boxes for both my husband and me. The best feature was that it was very reasonably priced. I wasn't looking for something expensive!
The first thing that drew me in was the shape. Many fanny packs available are the typical triangle shape—bulky in the middle and then tapering off.
This one features a rectangular design, measuring approximately 4.7 inches tall by 8.7 inches wide, with a depth of around 1.7 inches. It feels sleeker against the body and more practical for our preferred travel style.
I also loved that it wasn't large. It still feels compact when you're using it, but it surprised me with how much I could actually fit inside.
What I Carry Inside
We used these for travel, so I had a little mental checklist of everything I needed to bring along on the airplane:
My passport
A small wallet
Headphones
Phone charger
Our Phone
Some over-the-counter meds
And guess what? Everything fit—neatly.
Inside the main compartment, there are mesh pockets that help organize your essentials so you're not constantly fishing around. I loved that.
My passport had its own spot. My headphones didn't tangle with other things. And there was still room to spare.
These are just the items I prioritized, but there's still space for quite a bit more if you need it.
How We Wore It
Another big plus: this fanny pack isn't just for the waist. It has a wide, adjustable strap that makes it easy to wear crossbody.
And it's not just for travel either. This is one of those bags you could use every day—for running errands, walking the dog, going for a casual hike, or even heading to a concert where you want your hands free.
The Look and Feel
The material is sturdy yet not stiff or floppy. It holds its shape nicely, which makes it look more polished than some of the casual nylon options. It's water-resistant, which comes in handy if you get caught in the rain!
The zippers are smooth, the buckle is strong, and the strap feels durable. All in all, it feels like a much more expensive bag than it actually is.
Color Options and Style
We chose the blue version and are happy with the look.
They come in other colors—some bolder and some more neutral—but I noticed that some of the color options are slightly more expensive. Still, even at the higher end, it's reasonably affordable.
The overall style is simple and modern, so it doesn't clash with your outfit. Whether you're wearing jeans and a t-shirt or something a little more sporty, it blends right in.
Would I Recommend It?
Absolutely. Whether you're going out of town or just need something lightweight and convenient for everyday use, this fanny pack is a resounding yes for me. It checks all the boxes—affordable, practical, stylish, and roomy without being bulky.
I'm glad I found it—and even happier that it turned out to be as functional as I'd hoped.
If you're looking for a crossbody or waist bag that actually holds what you need and keeps it organized, check this one out.
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If someone had told me that I had tiny mites living in my eyelashes, I would've laughed—until last year when I woke up with a chalazion. If you've never had one, it's a bump on the eyelid that can form from chronic blepharitis. It's not fun.
So, off to the eye doctor I went. After examining my eye, she explained that my issue might be linked to Demodex mites—yep, eyelash mites. Just hearing the word gave me the heebie-jeebies.
She told me that many people have them, and they can contribute to ongoing eye irritation, chalazions, and styes. In fact, Studies show that about 50% of people have them by age 20, and nearly 100% by age 60.
The Eye Doctor's Advice That Changed Everything
As part of the treatment, my doctor prescribed me some drops and also advised me to use tea tree wipes to clean my eyelid and eyelash area daily. I had never heard of such a thing, but I was desperate to get rid of that bump—and even more desperate to make sure it never came back.
So, I took her advice and bought a box of tea tree wipes. And let me tell you—they worked.
How I Used the Wipes (And Still Do!)
Each night, I carefully cleaned along my eyelash line with a wipe. She instructed me to apply the product directly under the bump and gently over the eyelid, but emphasized that the lash line was the most important area. I did this religiously for about a month.
Even after the chalazion cleared up, I kept using them. Why? Because I didn't want to go through that again. They became part of my nightly routine. It just made sense—keep your eyelash area clean and reduce the chance of mites or debris building up again.
When I Stopped Using Them… I Paid the Price
Earlier this year, I got lazy and stopped using the wipes. Not long after, a small sty popped up—right along my eyelid margin. It wasn't big, but it was annoying and uncomfortable. I immediately regretted ditching my routine. I went online and ordered my go-to tea tree wipes again.
I've tried a couple of brands, but NOVEHA is hands-down my favorite. They're:
Individually wrapped, making them perfect for travel or bedside use.
Loaded with soothing ingredients like green tea, chamomile, aloe vera, hyaluronic acid, and of course tea tree oil.
Great for multiple uses—I even use them when I forget to remove makeup or just need a quick eye refresh.
They're gentle on my skin, don't sting, and leave my eyes feeling clean and moisturized. Yes, they're pricey, but worth every single penny.
What These Tea Tree Wipes Do
Let me quickly summarize what I love about the NOVEHA tea tree wipes, in plain language:
Clean and refresh the lash line and eyelids
Help reduce inflammation and irritation
Remove dirt, oils, and debris that mites and bacteria love
Help with conditions like blepharitis, Demodex mites, styes, and dry, itchy eyes
Safe enough to use daily—even great at removing light makeup
No preservatives, non-irritating, and recommended by eye doctors
The fact that they come individually wrapped means I can throw a few in my purse or keep them on my nightstand for those lazy nights.
Final Thought
Dealing with eyelid irritation, chalazions, or styes can be frustrating and uncomfortable. I had no idea that Demodex mites even existed until my doctor opened my eyes—literally—to what was really going on.
These wipes have made a big difference for me. I use them as part of my prevention routine now, and anytime I feel a little irritation, I grab one right away. If you've been struggling with blepharitis or other eyelid issues and haven't tried tea tree wipes yet, I highly recommend giving them a shot.
Quick Reminder
Disclaimer: I'm not a doctor—just someone who has personally experienced this and found something that works. Always talk to your eye care professional before starting any new treatments or routines.
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How to Kill a Wasp Nest Behind the Bricks of Your House (What Actually Worked for Me)
Every morning, I sit outside with my coffee and enjoy a bit of peace and quiet on my backyard swing. One morning, I noticed something odd: a steady stream of wasps flying in and out of a small crack between the bricks on the back wall of our house. And not just once—this happened every day, especially when the morning sun was beating down on that area.
At first, I thought it was just a few scouts. I grabbed some peppermint-scented water (which I'd read could deter them) and gave the area a good spray. Nope. That didn't work. The wasps kept coming—more and more every day. I knew it: there was a nest forming inside the wall. Time to take this seriously.
The Entry Point Is Everything
One thing I quickly realized—and I want to highlight this for anyone else dealing with wasps in the wall—is that you must find the entry point. I could see precisely where the wasps were flying in and out, and that made all the difference. If you don't know where they're entering, you'll need to spend some time observing their flight path. It's absolutely critical.
And here's what not to do (yes, I learned the hard way): Don't plug the hole.
At first, I thought, "Well, let me just plug the crack so they can't get back in. That'll stop the problem, right?" Nope. Big mistake! Huge!
When I temporarily sealed the hole, about 20 wasps showed up in full-on panic mode, trying to get in. They were confused and aggressive.
I did some fast reading and found out that sealing up an active wasp nest is a terrible idea—because they'll just find another way out. They've been known to chew through tar paper and even wood to escape.
That was enough for me. I unplugged the hole and got serious about a real solution.
Why I Chose Pyrethrin Insecticide Dust (And Availability Notes)
When researching the best insecticide dusts to treat a wasp nest in a wall, I came across several recommended options.
However, as I began looking for them online, I noticed something important: many of the most recommended products weren't showing up on Amazon USA. Whether that's a temporary availability issue or a distribution limitation, I'm not sure.
Since I live in Canada, I purchased pyrethrin insecticide dust from Amazon Canada, because it was the only product from the recommended list that I could actually find and buy at the time. It wasn't cheap, but honestly, it was absolutely worth it. It worked fast and effectively.
If you're in the U.S., you might still be able to find pyrethrin dust or other recommended insecticide powders at your local hardware or garden store—even if they don't appear on Amazon USA.
The key is finding an insecticide dust, not a spray, because the dust gets tracked back to the nest and to the queen. It's what makes the method so effective for hard-to-reach, hidden nests, such as those in walls or behind brick.
How the Insecticide Dust Works
What I loved about this solution is how the dust works: when the wasps enter and exit, they can't help but touch it. Their wings, legs, and bodies pick up the fine powder, and when they return to the nest, they bring it with them. Eventually, it reaches the queen and the rest of the hive, affecting their nervous systems and eliminating the entire colony.
I only sprayed once. I assumed I'd need to repeat the process 24 to 48 hours later, but I didn't—it worked in 24 hours. That was it. The activity stopped completely.
Why This Method Worked for Me
Here's why I think this method worked so well:
The crack was small and direct, so the dust clung to everything inside.
The pump sprayer with the long nozzle allowed me to get deep into the crack without needing to see the nest.
Pyrethrin dust is potent and fast-acting.
I caught the nest in the earlier stages—there was still time to stop it before it got out of control.
And, importantly, this method is excellent for cracks where the nest is not visible, but you can clearly see wasps entering and exiting.
What About Diatomaceous Earth?
For U.S. readers: another product that came up in my research was Diatomaceous Earth (DE)—an organic, earth-based dust. It's widely available in the U.S. and can be a gentler, more natural alternative. However, many sources indicated it may take longer to work and might not be effective for larger nests. I could have purchased it in Canada, but with the urgency of the situation (and my husband being allergic), I chose the faster option.
If you do opt for Diatomaceous Earth, the same application method applies: obtain a pump with a narrow nozzle and apply it directly to the wasps' entry point.
Application Safety Tips
A word of caution: Pyrethrin is a type of insecticide. Even though I was using it five feet up the wall (out of reach of pets), I took all the proper precautions:
Wore a mask
Wore gloves
Put on a heavy sweater
Threw my clothes straight into the laundry after the one-minute application
Honestly, the actual spraying took less than 60 seconds—three to four good puffs into the crack, and I was done.
Final Thoughts: Don't Wait Too Long
The longer I let this go, the more wasps appeared. Every day, I could tell the nest was growing. I don't like harming living creatures, but having a wasp nest in the bricks of our house was a safety risk—for us, for pets, and for anyone allergic.
I'm really glad I took the time to conduct thorough research and find a product that is safe, effective, and available in Canada. If you're dealing with the same issue, I hope this helps save you some time and stress.
In short?
✔ Find the entry point.
❌ Don't plug the hole.
✅ Use the right dust and pump. (See the hyperlinks above.).
😌 And in 24 hours, you might just be wasp-free.
TAKE NOTE: Consult a professional exterminator if the wasp nest is too big or the situation is unsafe! In fact, don't attempt this if you're unsure whether it's safe to do so.
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Cooling Pillowcases: A Thoughtful Gift That Actually Made a Difference
A few years ago, for my friend's birthday, I gave her a cooling blanket. She has trouble with temperature regulation while sleeping, and I thought, maybe this could help. Well—it did more than help. She absolutely loves it. She has mentioned more than once how it has been a game changer for her sleep.
So when her birthday came around this year, I was back at it, thinking about what else might bring her comfort.
I'm at that age now where I try to give health-related gifts—things people will actually use and benefit from. The novelty stuff doesn't do it for me anymore. So, I decided to go with cooling pillowcases this time. And let me tell you… she was thrilled again.
Here's why cooling pillowcases are a surprisingly awesome gift—and why I think more people should try them.
1.Hot Sleepers Know the Struggle
If you (or someone you love) wakes up in the middle of the night feeling too hot, drenched in sweat, or constantly flipping the pillow to find the "cool side," cooling pillowcases are made for that. My friend has been dealing with this issue for years, and she told me that these pillowcases are precisely what she needed to help her stay more regulated at night.
2. They Feel Instantly Cool to the Touch
These aren't just regular pillowcases with fancy packaging. As soon as your skin touches them, you feel the coolness. It's hard to explain, but the sensation is real—and it lasts. The material is designed to pull heat away from the body, making it easier to fall asleep.
3. It's Better Sleep Without All the Fuss
No extra fans, no awkward cooling pads that slide around—just a regular pillowcase that feels fresh and light. It's such a simple swap to make, but it really makes sleep more restful, especially for those of us dealing with night sweats or heat sensitivity.
4.Gentle on Hair and Skin
One unexpected perk? The fabric is smooth and silky, so your hair and skin glide over it instead of rubbing against it. That means fewer tangles in the morning and less chance of waking up with those creased sleep lines on your face. A small thing, but a nice bonus.
5. Low Maintenance—Just Toss in the Wash
I like practical gifts, and this one's as low-fuss as they come. You don't need any special washing instructions. Just toss them in the machine, hang to dry or tumble low, and they're good to go. No fading, no pilling—just easy comfort.
The Pillowcases I Chose
The ones I picked have a lovely gradient design—very soft and modern. They use special cooling fibers (made with Japanese Arc-Chill technology, if you're into the details), which help draw heat away from the skin.
They're OEKO-TEX certified too, so no worrying about weird chemicals. There's a hidden zipper, which I appreciate because it keeps the pillow secure without anything poking out. All in all, they look good, feel cool, and are easy to care for.
Final Thought
If you're looking for a gift that's both unique and useful—especially for someone who struggles with sleep temperature issues—don't hesitate to try cooling pillowcases. My friend really appreciated hers, and I feel good knowing it's something she'll use every night.
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The Handy Little Burger Gadget My Husband Swears By
Let me tell you about a simple kitchen gadget that's made a big difference in our house—especially for my husband, who's the one doing all the burger grilling around here.
Shaping Burgers Has Never Been Easier!
We make a large number of burgers at once, especially during the summer, and we typically freeze a batch for later use. However, shaping them by hand was becoming frustrating—none of the patties came out the same, and they always had a little lump in the middle that made them cook unevenly. Some were too thick, some too thin, and it just became a pain.
One day, after another round of lopsided burgers, my husband went digging through Amazon and found a burger press that looked like it might do the trick. He asked me to place the order—and I'm so glad he did.
A Simple, Affordable Gadget That Does the Work For You
This little gadget has completely changed the way we make burgers. The patties come out perfectly shaped—uniform in thickness and size—and they actually look like something you'd get at a restaurant. Best of all, they cook evenly, which means no more guessing which one needs more time on the grill. And when you place them between the buns? Chef's kiss. They fit just right.
Easy To Use, Clean and Store - It's Not Big!
It's easy to use, easy to clean, and doesn't take up much space. It's a compact little unit. I actually keep ours on top of the bread box—not because it's big, but because our kitchen drawers aren't very deep and I don't want it to get caught when we open and close them. But if you have deeper drawers, it'll fit nicely inside. Either way, it's small and simple to store.
Here Are Some of the Particulars For This Must-Have Burger Press Gadget:
Made from food-grade aluminum that's BPA-free and SGS certified, so it's safe and built to last.
Features a premium non-stick coating and comes with 50 pieces of wax paper to keep patties from sticking—plus, it's dishwasher safe.
The built-in grooves give the burgers that classic, professional look.
Comes with a detachable non-slip handle, great for taking along to barbecues, picnics, or camping trips.
If you're making burgers at home—especially in batches like we do—you really should try this gadget.
It's affordable, easy to use, and just makes the whole process smoother. My husband's been using it ever since it arrived, and we're both impressed. Sometimes, it's really the little things that make the biggest difference.
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Another Affordable & Effective Under-Eye Concealer I’ve Recently Tried
I’ve always been a fan of E.L.F. makeup products—they’re affordable, reliable, and get the job done without any fuss. A few years back, I even wrote about their Under Eye Concealer and Highlighter, which I still think is a fantastic little product.
To be honest, I’m not a big makeup person. My daily routine is simple: a touch of under-eye concealer, a hint of blush, lip gloss occasionally, mascara, and eyeshadow on special occasions. That’s pretty much it. I don’t wear foundation, and I rarely go on makeup shopping sprees. I’ll use the same few products until they’re finished, then restock only when necessary.
The E.L.F. under-eye concealer is a go-to for a reason. It’s light, easy to apply, and it doesn’t sit heavy on the skin. It brightens up tired eyes, smooths things out a bit, and gives a nice, clean look without being overdone. If you’re like me and prefer a natural, minimal makeup vibe, it’s perfect.
My Recent Find: Maybelline Instant Age Rewind
Now, about this Maybelline Concealer—I was genuinely impressed. It features a soft, cushiony sponge tip that makes application super easy.
You just twist the top, and the product flows into the sponge. Dab it under your eyes, around the corners, or even on your lids if needed. It blends well, doesn’t settle into creases, and has a smooth finish.
For someone who sticks to just a few products and likes things to be quick and effortless, this one fits right in. It’s affordable, effective, and doesn’t feel like you’re wearing a layer of product.
Both Products Are Worth Having
Now I have two favorite under-eye concealers—and I’m not usually someone who keeps multiple options on hand. Both the E.L.F. and Maybelline concealers are budget-friendly, easy to use, and deliver real results.
If you’re in the market for a new concealer or just want to try something different without breaking the bank, give the Maybelline Instant Age Rewind a shot.
It may become one of your everyday go-to products, like it has for me.
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To Date, Here Are 5 of The Biggest Stars to Come Out of The Voice
You know, I've been a fan of The Voice for years—probably over a decade now. And thanks to the magic of TikTok, I've fallen down more than a few rabbit holes watching short clips from The Voice UK, The Voice Kids, and even auditions from countries I didn't expect—like Germany, Indonesia, and South Africa. There's something about those blind auditions and spinning chairs that just pulls me in every time.
After digging into the history of The Voice, I found a few fun factoids I thought you might like, too. The show actually started way back in 2010 in the Netherlands, created by John de Mol (yep, the same guy who helped create Big Brother).
Since then, it's exploded across the globe with over 60 international versions. You can now catch The Voice in countries like the U.S., Canada, the UK, Australia, Brazil, France, Germany, Mexico, South Africa, Italy, Indonesia, the Philippines, Sweden, Argentina, and many more.
Now, while The Voice has given the world thousands of notable singers, not all of them have gone on to become household names. Who are some of the biggest stars to come out of The Voice? Who made a significant impact after the show was over?
"After conducting some research (and encountering a few surprises), I've found the following. By the way, this is my personal research; feel free to dispute any of these, or add people you think belong on this list! Leave your opinion in the comments."
🌟 Top 5 Most Successful Contestants from The Voice – Worldwide
These are the ones who not only wowed us on the show but also went on to sell records, earn awards, and build actual careers. Let's break it down:
1. Morgan Wallen
(The Voice USA, Season 6 – 2014, Team Usher initially, then Team Adam)
Okay, so this one shocked even me. Morgan Wallen was actually eliminated early in the playoffs, but he's become the biggest success story ever from The Voice.
Why he's #1:
🎧 Record Sales & Streams:
Over 35 million equivalent album sales (EAS) globally
Dangerous: The Double Album broke all kinds of country music streaming records
One Thing at a Time dominated the charts for weeks
💵 Estimated Earnings:
Net worth estimated between $25–30 million and rising fast
🏆 Awards:
ACM Album of the Year
Billboard Music Awards
CMT Music Awards
Holds records for most weeks on Billboard Country Charts
Bottom line: He didn't win the show, but he definitely won real-life stardom.
2. Melanie Martinez
(The Voice USA, Season 3 – 2012, Top 6 Finalist)
Melanie had a style all her own from the start—quirky, artistic, emotional. And it turns out that unique identity is precisely what carried her beyond the show.
What she's accomplished:
🎧 Album Sales & Streams:
Cry Baby was certified Double Platinum in the U.S.
Albums like K-12 and Portals have cult followings
Billions of streams across platforms
💵 Estimated Earnings:
Net worth somewhere around $10–12 million
🏆 Impact:
While she's not mainstream radio famous, she's a huge streaming success, especially among younger listeners on TikTok and Spotify.
Strong merchandise sales and sold-out tours
Bottom line: She has built a loyal fan base and a full-blown brand on her own terms.
3. Jordan Smith
(The Voice USA, Season 9 – 2015, Winner – Team Adam)
Jordan Smith's voice is the kind that makes you stop what you're doing and just listen. He made history with his chart performance during the show and continued to do so afterward.
Highlights:
🎧 Sales & Chart Success:
Became the highest-selling Voice contestant on iTunes during his season
Albums charted on Billboard's Christian and Adult Contemporary charts
Billboard chart-topper in the Christian music space
Bottom line: Jordan found his lane in Christian and inspirational music, and is thriving.
Here's Jordan Smith's blind audition:
4. Cassadee Pope
(The Voice USA, Season 3 – 2012, Winner – Team Blake)
Cassadee brought her pop-punk background from the band Hey Monday into country music, making it work. She was the first female winner of The Voice USA and used the win to launch a solid country career.
Career Snapshot:
🎧 Sales:
Frame by Frame hit No. 1 on Billboard's Country Albums chart
Single "Wasting All These Tears" sold 125,000 copies in its first week
Duet "Think of You" with Chris Young went Platinum
💵 Estimated Earnings:
Estimated around $4–5 million
🏆 Awards:
Grammy nomination
CMT Music Award
ACM Award nomination
Bottom line: A fan favorite who turned her win into long-term respect in the country scene.
Cassadee Pope performed this song on The Voice, and ever since, it's held a special place in my heart. When my dad passed, I wept listening to it. Those tears were part of my healing. The original is by Miranda Lambert, and it still brings me back to that time.
5. Koryn Hawthorne
(The Voice USA, Season 8 – 2015, 4th Place – Team Pharrell)
She didn't win the show, but she's dominating the gospel and Christian charts today.
Why she made the list:
🎧 Chart Success:
Unstoppable topped Billboard's Top Gospel Albums
Single "Won't He Do It" stayed at No. 1 for 41 weeks (that's almost a whole year!)
💵 Estimated Earnings:
Net worth estimated at around $1–2 million
🏆 Awards & Nominations:
2 Grammy nominations
Billboard and Stellar Gospel Awards
Bottom line: She's a star in her genre, with one of the most consistent post-show careers.
Here's Koryn's blind audition:
🎬 Final Thoughts
So there you have it! While not every Voice contestant goes on to global superstardom, a few have carved out seriously successful careers. And what's fascinating is that most of them didn't even win, which shows that sometimes, winning the show isn't the only path to success.
Whether it's country chart domination, like Morgan Wallen, quirky theatrical pop, like Melanie Martinez, or inspirational gospel, like Koryn Hawthorne, these artists have found their unique lane.
And if you're like me and still find yourself watching audition clips at 1 AM from The Voice UK or The Voice Kids Philippines, it's kind of nice to know that the show really can change lives—and sometimes, lead to something bigger than anyone expected.
Do you have a personal favorite from The Voice over the years?
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