The holiday season is a time of joy, togetherness, and reflection. However, it's not always a joyous time for some, so anything we can do to help lessen someone's burden is ultimately the truest gift (in my humble opinion).
As we immerse ourselves in the festivities, it's essential to remember the true spirit of Christmas, which extends far beyond glittering decorations and festive feasts.
At its core, Christmas embodies the values of compassion, generosity, and kindness. Amid the hustle and bustle, let us pause to rediscover the essence of this magical season.
The True Spirit of Christmas
Amidst the exchanging of gifts and the twinkling lights, the true spirit of Christmas is really about our acts of kindness, no matter how small.
It's about selflessness and a genuine desire to bring joy to others. Embracing this spirit can transform the holiday season into a meaningful and fulfilling experience. As we navigate the celebrations, let us prioritize the well-being and happiness of those around us.
Acts of Kindness
Random Acts of Kindness: Surprise someone with a small, unexpected act of kindness, whether paying for a stranger's coffee or leaving an uplifting note for a neighbor.
Volunteer Opportunities: Consider spending some time volunteering at local charities or shelters. Your presence and assistance can make a significant impact on those less fortunate.
Donate to a Cause: Donate to a charity or cause that aligns with your values instead of focusing solely on material gifts. This supports important initiatives and instills a sense of purpose in your celebrations. Donating that extra two dollars at the store is also a kind gesture.
Helping Hand: Offer assistance to friends or family members who may be struggling during the holiday season. Whether running errands or providing emotional support, your help can be a lifeline. Sometimes, listening to a friend and conversing with family while you spend time together is a helping hand.
Personal Reflection
As we engage in acts of kindness, we reflect on our blessings and privileges.
Christmas is an opportune time to acknowledge and appreciate what we have while actively working towards making a positive difference in the lives of others. By fostering a culture of kindness, we contribute to a world that reflects the season's true spirit.
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Let's maintain sight of the genuine warmth of acts of kindness. This Christmas, let's collectively embrace the season's true spirit by spreading joy, practicing compassion, and fostering a sense of community.
In doing so, we not only enrich the lives of others but also create lasting memories that truly capture the essence of Christmas.
Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays to all.
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If anything 2020 has taught us, it's that life is precious. During these crazy pandemic-times, today's review features big and small ways we can show our love to each other.
In the end, it's only love that matters. Our family lost someone yesterday (not from the pandemic), and we've been reflecting and remembering that love is the most valuable asset we take with us.
Let's not wait until it's too late to show those we love how we feel; let's start today. Here's a quick list of ways we can demonstrate we care:
Call or video your I love you message and say it
Physically mail a letter or a card
Make them dinner and clean up the mess
Clean the house for them
Give them me-time; watch the kids
Bring them a coffee, or two
Play board games and laugh
Email articles and photos to let them know you're thinking of them
Write them a poem
Dedicate a song to them via the radio
Sing them a song; if you can't sing, even better!
Create a video that lists all the reasons you love them
Thank them for all they've done for you
Accept or give forgiveness
Say "I love you" as often as you can
Bring them breakfast in bed
Send flowers or a plant
Drop off treats, gifts, personal drawings or groceries when social distancing
Have cozy gifts delivered; throw blankets, pillows
Snail mail a card every day, with a beautiful quote, for a month or a year
Let them talk; be a listener
Don't offer your opinions, just be there
Don't try to solve unsolvable problems, just be there
Accept each other's differences and just love each other for who you are
Use please and thank you with your family members
Speak with a kind voice to your loved ones
Give sarcasm a break from time to time
Remember they were once a little child, see them that way
Keep dark thoughts at bay, and send people love and light often
Remember none of us are perfect
Go 24 hours judgment-free - judge nothing, forgive everything
Read together, sing together, dance together
Set a goal to laugh with them at least 20 times in one day
Live for the moment, the specific moment you're sharing
When possible, if possible, hug each other
Start a story by email where everyone adds their portion and emails it to the next person
Pray together in person or virtually
Use your thoughtful inside voice when you have to ask for something
Give them something personal that holds special meaning to you
Ask them their opinion, so they feel they matter
When they've made a mistake, remember your own mistakes before reacting
Be a safe place for someone to land
When they speak to you in confidence, keep it confident
Don't gossip about people you love to other people you love
Serve your community in some fashion; do it together
Give each other space
Be on their team in life
When discussing testy issues, do it with grace and respect
Smile at your loved ones - this one seems silly, but try it, you'll be surprised
Laugh at their jokes
It's ok to be happy; show joy in front of your friends and family
Don't be afraid to apologize if you've made a mistake
Forgive them if they can't apologize when they've made a mistake
Be the change you want to see in a relationship
When you need love, give love
When summed up, we should consider the lessons taught in the Paradoxical Commandments, also known as The Anyway Poem. Listen to the gorgeous song interpretation by Martina McBride here in her famous song, Anyway.
The above suggestions are fairly obvious to most of us; however, sometimes we forget it's how we make each other feel that's remembered.
I'll end with a video poem I created a few months ago called Living in Light - Stay safe and blessings to you.
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I found some flower art for kids to give to my youngest granddaughter for her birthday this year. She enjoys doing all sorts of crafty things so after reviewing some options, the kit that I purchased just seemed like a perfect match for her age and her personality.
Flower art by mother nature image courtesy of pixabay.com
The kit is called Random Acts of Flowers and fits my little sweet pea (pun intended) to a "t". I can see her making a small bunch of flowers to give to someone in a random act of kindness. She is so in tune with the emotions people are experiencing around her and would delight in making someone smile with a little gift.
Teaching Kindness With Crafts
The kit includes 75 sheets of tissue paper, 12 floral stems, 12 gift tags, a hanging vase and a bandit mask. Why the mask? This is supposed to be random and anonymous...besides kids love it. What is not included is a pair of scissors and you will also have to supply the kind soul of a child or adult. It is the most important ingredient in the mix!
So, making these flowers and then finding a place to hang them so that people can smile as they take one from the hanging bouquet is only part of the fun. Those gift tags that can be attached to a flower are supposed to have a message on them. The encouraged message is that whoever takes the flower is supposed to go do something nice for someone else. Don't you just love that?
Added to the benefit of spreading kindness one little action at a time is the fact that every purchase of one of these kits pays it forward a little more. A donation is made to a charity that takes re-cycled flowers along with words of encouragement to health care facilities to promote the emotional well-being to residents. I love that!
A Gift that Keeps Giving
Another thing I loved about this flower art for kids kit is that it plants that seed of kindness but it doesn't have to stop once the original supplies are used up. It is so very easy to buy more tissue paper. The children can make their own little gift tags and flower stems can be replenished. The hanging vase might be taken away but they can use their imagination to make another one.
What do you think? Would you give a child a gift like this?
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